Guys only.....can this really happen or was I just played !!?

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Long story short, I went out with this guy for 3 months, not very long sure, but got into it quite deeply and fell in love with him......he went on a few dates with someone else a couple of months into it, and when I was upset, broke up....over text! It sounds bad, but I was really into him!!

A few months later we communicate again, I initiated it, and I was away so it was long distance, and he told me how much he still loves me, and flirting with me all the time, and sending me e-mails and calling me and saying he misses me.....but he’s also seeing that other girl now....and with me so far away he cannot think straight...

Now just yesterday I saw on a common’s friend’s status that they are having a bachelor party for him!! He hasn’t been answering my e-mails for the past week, and hasn’t mentioned anything like this at all!! Now he’s getting married suddenly?? He told me 2 weeks ago he still loves me!! I mean, wtf!!

I messaged him just casually and he said he was out traveling, as he and the other girl are making it official soon so it was a bachelor party for him!! I wrote to him saying that he's quite a piece of work, and that I hope he can be faithful to her in the future.....and he goes, 

"there's no reason why I shouldn't express what I feel for someone. As far as the engagement is concerned, we decided in the past few days, so there’s nothing wrong there!
All I can say is, my intentions were clear & in the open and were never meant to hurt you..if u really feel I deserve this kinda reaction, then I guess I should just apologize (like I did the last time around!), and hope for u to see things rationally some day"

Am I just over reacting or is this really wrong? Like how can he express feelings for love for someone and decide to get engaged to someone else a few weeks later and think its all fine? Does that make sense? What about how he's making me feel by saying all this and then backing off?
I just want to know if I'm wrong for thinking this and is he right?

Nick · Accepted Answer

Girl, get AWAY from that.  He is an emotional trap.  He is manipulative and he sounds a bit crazy.  Put some distance between the two of you and focus on doing what is good for you life.  He is the type that just brings people down, breaks hearts and adds to confusion.  Nobody needs that.

Mugen · Answer

He's player and just wants some booty on the side. Why the neck would you feel bad? He used you, wants to use you again and yet you're feeling bad about what he said, don't you see anything wrong with that? Watch your emotions, females are more emotional sex and guys will use that knowledge to guilt you into taking blame for crap that did. Watch and recognize when your emotions are leading you wrong and then pull away from it. You already know the truth and yet part of you is questioning it, do understand what i mean? Listen to your gut if you don't want to be just booty on the side or just end up getting used again.

Anonymous · Answer

who cares move on.

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