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Hey men does sex equal love? or do you consider other factor?

My boyfriend says it is the whole package, but I think the sex is what keeps him with me.

So guys....tell me what you think

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  • 8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Dont be rediculous.. What do you think he is a bloody savage... ?

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    A balanced opinion.. hmm... would it be appropriate here? Looks to me that all you want is acknowledgement by everybody (unfortunately this is never going to happen, even in an exclusively male world) that "men are better," and it upsets you when somebody doesn't agree. That's the nature of the EGO. (Speaking of which, why are you not challenging the fact that most men's IQ are a lot higher than your own? Seems like a comparable point to be honest. Fairly sure, given the generalizations made, that there's enough women with a much higher IQ too). ... not even the point ... I think you should do a double take on all the internet derived assumptions that your mind has pieced together, and realise that, if there was nobody to oppose you, you'd never have given a shiit in the first place. Oh well, rape and pornography exists :) deal with your low self esteem and come again.

  • timmer
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Are you kidding? Speaking as a guy, I gotta tell you the only thing sex and love have to do with each other is that we love to have sex. Seriously, we will have sex with just about anyone, but love is very rare and special. You do have to watch out for guys who are dishonest and will say anything, including the 'L' word, in order to get the sex they want. But most of us will just go for the sex and at all costs try not to use the 'L' word. That is until we actually are in love. Then, sex is not as important. And don't think that we fall in love with someone because the sex is good. Love comes from other aspects of the relationship and how the personalities go together. A relationship with real love but so-so sex will last far longer than one with great sex but no real love. When you truly love someone, you don't care about what makes you happy, you only care what makes your partner happy. And if you are incredibly lucky and fall in love with someone who truly loves you, they will care most about making you happy. When this happens, something just clicks and everything works out - whether or not the sex is spectacular. Believe me, it will be good enough.

  • 8 years ago

    hmmm i guess... i don't think that sex = love... i think how you connect with the other person, their personality, the reasons why u love tha tperson... i think that's what decides whether u love some1...

    i think taht sex is nothing more than pleasure... i think u can get pleasure from any1 -have sex with any1... but that doesn't mean that u necessarily love them...

    sometimes... when u love some1, and u have sex... the experience can be enhanced ... it could also turn out that you aren't compatible with that person in bed, that u don't find sex wiht that person to be as exciting... but u r still with them because u love them...

  • 8 years ago

    having someone you care about is wow, for that someone to want you thats amazing, to sleep next to that someone is beautiful knowing you have not only something emotional but physical...that is whole package...i know, cause ive had opportunities of both, i was just an asshole then that i made it not function. Hopes to you, to any:j

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    No way! Sex is great, but it cannot compare to love, and the two frequently do not go hand-in-hand. Having both is the best, though.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Sex is sex. It doesn't mean love unless your making love which is different.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    sex will n e v e r be in league with love.

    love from your heart makes sex, the incredible supernova it can reach.

    Source(s): never 4get this.
  • 8 years ago

    It is much the feeling of being happy to see and meet the partner.

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