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help me , my personal life is in trouble.?
i am very sober guy. But i dont want to ask for help. Now as situation is getting out of control i am asking it from you. i am 37 yrs old married happily with two kids. we have a couple who lives in our house only. they are childless. Means the lady cannot produce kids. she works in our house from the last 9 yrs. But my problem started 2 yrs back. I dont know why she started taking undue interest in me. She stares at me not with anger but you know a women staring a man , doesnt it sound strange. she is giving me sleepless nights. As i am tormented with lust towards her. i want to put an end to this. my parents also live with me. they are very old. Every person in this world has 6th sense. you come to know about a person meeting only once. my 6th sense says that she is very dangerous women who is trying to captivate me and have physical relation with me. In society i am respectable person. never i had a girl friend . never i tried making one. because i dont want to complicate my life. but this women she is fair complexion and chubby. very beautiful eyes she have.
i like her also but dont want to go further than just compliments. but she is a master at troubling me and she is igniting in me desire for her. i dont know she knows what she is doing or not. please shed some light. And lastly i dont want to become another shiny ahuja.
5 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
You need to get rid of her. If your as happily married as you say you are then why even take notice of her. Think of your children too its important to include them if you let her get in your head and something does happen between you it could ruin your marriage them what will happen it will all come crashing down. You had kids with your wife for a reason, you love her and you care about her so don't spoil things over a desperate woman, she must be desperate to look at a married man. She's called a home wrecker. Get Rid!
- NedraLv 45 years ago
You have some good answers here. I just want to add one thing. Take small steps every day toward your goals. Do something TODAY. When life gets you down, it can be immobilizing. Doing something is better than doing nothing. So every day, sacrifice some of the time during which you might enjoy some TV or video games or something, and work towards one of the goals you have set. If you feel you have no idea where to start, then start there - learn where to start. You can learn how to do something by consulting an expert, searching the internet, checking out a book from the library, or maybe just brainstorming. Just get yourself marching in the direction you want to go, and don't let bullies, or anything else discourage you from taking at least one small step every day. Good luck. You wouldn't believe how many adults have stood in your shoes. We're all pulling for you.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Don't do it. If you are happily married with your wife do not risk ruining it. Also, this could break your family apart if it spreads. Think of your children, it is tough on children if their parents fight or break up.
