family dissowning me?

Dear Tanisha, First thing I want you to know your family will always love you it's just sometimes they do not like us, as people have high hopes for those they love, & I am sure this is the case, I am sure your Mom was thinking well how am I ever going to be a Grandmother or have a son in law to hate or love to death you just need to take your Mom out to lunch where there will not be a big scene & just alk to her tell her this is your life right or wrong you have the right to live in whatever way makes you happy. She may not agree with your life style choice but it is your choice, at this time you happen to be in a relationship with a same sex gender but you like both sexes, so not to give up the thought of you ever being married or having children of your own. Let her know you live in a different world than the one she grew up in & that you love her no matter who she loves ! I noticed you said family but you only mentioned your Mom but if she is your whole family then maybe you 2 have some underlying issues but if their are more explain to them one by one or all at the same time me it would be a one on one as to let each make up their own mind but like I said this is your life & you have the right to be happy and know that it may hurt their ideal life style but in actuality it should not effect their daily living with whom ever you choose to love. so sit down talk it out & let them you need them to except who your are just the same.. It is the holiday Season try to be Happy & God Bless

Has she actually told you to leave home? At the end of the day, this is a hard thing for parents to accept... give her some time. Don't test the waters so soon and give them time to accept it before you bring your gf home. I mean, some parents find it hard to accept their daughter has a bf. Take things slowly and don't push them. When they are ready to accept it and it has been a while, then you can bring gfs and the like home.