too young for marriage..but not kids?

Kids are way more of a commitment than marriage is.

So if you're not ready for marriage, you sure as hell aren't ready for fatherhood.

Don't allow yourself to be pushed into marriage, until you are ready for it. Some people get married at a young age, some prefer to wait until they are older, and some choose not to marry at all. Everyone has their own attitude about it. It's not weird to not be into marriage. Many people have kids without tying the knot.

Lots of people are having kids these days without getting married. But you will have child support issues if you ever leave her. Something to ponder.

you have to be kidding, i bet you didn't finish high school,

i bet if you have a job it barely pays minimum wage.....

a baby is a lot of work, a lot of time, a lot of sleepless nights,

a lot of diapers, a lot of medical bills a lot of stess, and a living

human being that needs constant attention, food, clean clean diapers,

warmth and love.......

i'm sure your heart is in the right place but your finances and ability

to provide are not......

of course it wierd thinking...like so many, hey i am man enough to knock someone up, but i sure as hell ain't man enough to get married....yeah join the already 100,000's with that pathetic attitude, if you aren't man enough to stick with one girl, DON'T knock her up and leave her with a kid with no dad

If you REALLY love her you want both.