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How do I talk to him? He's so quiet!?

This guy is a year ahead in school and I got to know him from blackberry messenger. Thing is we have never talked to each other in person. When we see each other we stare until we can't see us anymore. I was going to say hi a few times but the way he stares at me I get confused. He's really nice to me. He tells me that I'm really lovely and that he thinks I'm beautiful and cute. He also said that he's really talkative.. and when he sees me he will give me a cuddle. He comes across as a shy guy but I'm also quite shy. I have no idea how to talk to him without making him feel awkward?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Skyler! The point of uncertainty and fear of awkwardness is over. He's already told u he likes you. He told you he thinks you're beautiful and lovely, so what are you nervous about? Just go up to him and ask him a question about school (hey when do we get back from Christmas break? Then... Got any plans? Etc). If you're really afraid, start with innocent convo and slowly and slowly turn it more personal. You have nothing to worry about, you can go up to him and start talking about the great potato famine of 1894 and you'll be fine

  • 8 years ago

    hhhmmmmm...i would just bring up a convosation like 'hi what lesson are you going to next?' or 'you look nice today!' then he will have to say which lesson he is going to next or thnx. Just take it slowly and you will get there. I am shy as well and i know that i would find it awkward to have ur crush or guy making full on convosation if you have not really chatted massivly or whatever. Hope this helped xx Can you possibly help me? I am having problems as well x

  • 8 years ago

    Just start a natural conversation. Like "Hi, How are you" type of thing. Maybe he would be more talkative if you guys talked alone with each other. Or if you would invite him somewhere and talk with him there

  • 8 years ago

    you have to talk to him soon! the first guy that i liked that ever liked me back did the same thing. he was a player and we only talked online but we went to the same school. he said the same things and kept asking why i never talked to him at school ( i was uber shy) but know this: guys who do this, are looking for a confident girl. they are waiting for you to come to them. go to him as soon as possible and just say "hey" if you dont know what to say next say something like "what class do you have next"/"what class did you just have"/"how was (insert class name here". from there it will be so easy, just do it

  • 8 years ago

    i have the same issue with my guy! goosh....

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