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So we met on a messanger app on our phones and we realized we go to the same school (not anymore he has graduated). This was back in November and we talked every single day, all day. At the time I was struggling to get over a guy I loved for two years and he made it easier for me. We didn't talk for a month because we lost each others contacts and I instantly thought he didn't want to be friends because he got back with his ex. In January this year we became contacts again and the whole talking all day thing started again. In February we met up and he was really sweet to me, and we kissed, I then realized I really liked him. He told my friend he doesn't love his girlfriend because he likes me because he said I made him happy and I was really special. The thing is, he never told me he had a girlfriend and he kissed me. I asked him what he was gonna do, he told me he broke up with her but the relationship status never changed on facebook until March. We met up again in March and we got on well.

But during these months there was an odd few days or a week of not talking. Later on in April we stopped talking and only had a few short conversations which were meaningless. We ended up not talking until last week when he texted me. We talked for a week straight, we fall asleep during conversations and carry on the next day but that stopped about 3 days ago. It is summer now and we have more time to talk as his end of school exams are over. I understand that probably nothing will happen between us like becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. But what bothers me is these stages he goes through. I miss talking to him more and more. He was also the guy who got me over the guy I loved for 2 years which means a lot.

Should I just find another guy and forget about him or wait on?

I've known this guy since November, we me on a messenger app on my phone. He's in the same school but a year older. We talked constantly, day and night, hardly ever said good night because we fell asleep texting each other. I met up with him a few times and he tole my friend in January that he really liked me but at the time he had a girlfriend, the broke up about two months ago. I haven't talked to him in about a week, he stopped replying to me last Sunday but I thought it was okay as there wasn't much of a conversation going. Monday I messaged him and we talked for a bit, he said night and I thought he would message me but I haven't heard from him since. This happened twice before but now that we got closer and we're not talking makes me feel like he has another girl. I don't really want to message him first because my friend was asking him what happened and he said nothing and said he will talk to me. That was a few days ago and no text off him. What should I do? How can we talk for so long and suddenly stop talking ?

I'm female and 16 years old. I've been feeling down for ages, I have odd days where I'm in a really good mood but by the end of the day I start to feel upset and I don't know why. I don't know why I feel down so it make me think its just part of being a teenager. In November, 2011 I was at my lowest. I stayed in my room the entire month. I started to cut my wrists but I didn't let myself get out of control and it wasn't that noticeable. I started to feel a bit better after a few weeks. My parents are worried about me and they think there's always something bothering me. They ask me whats wrong but I wouldn't know what is actually wrong and just say nothing. I loose my temper very easily lately and once the temper stops, I cry. I loose interest in things easily and I can't hold a conversation anymore. When I'm with my best friend or some friends, I feel better but it doesn't last, The past three nights I haven't slept right. I'm exhausted now and I can't go to sleep. I've been getting awful headaches the past two months. I cry easily. I cry more than once a week, when I'm alone. No one knows how I've been feeling. I don't want to tell my parents because my dad will just tell me I'm looking for attention. I don't know what to do, I don't know if this is a normal part of being a teenager?

I met a guy on a text message app on my phone back in November. We talked constantly until he lost his phone. He got a new phone and I didn't have his contact number on my app so we didn't talk during this time. He is in the same school as me and is a year older. In January we became contacts again and the constant messages started again and they are still going to this minute. He's so sweet and funny, when we see each other in school we smile but we don't get the chance to talk. I met up with him and we got on so well, he was constantly hugging me, holding my hand and kissing me. That night I found out he has a girlfriend, this was after we kissed. I got annoyed and he apologized for being a "dick" because he didn't tell me. My friend was talking to him about it and he said he was going to break up with her because he likes me. He told me and my friend he broke up with her but the relationship status is still on facebook and one of my friends who is friends with his girlfriend said they were still in a relationship. My friend asked him what was going on and he said they broke up just the status hasn't changed and it's been almost a month. I honestly think he is lying because she changed her picture to them kissing last week for a day.

I really like this guy but I know I can't trust him, its really bothering that he's lying to me. I just don't know if I should hold on or just let him go?

I met a guy three months ago on a messenger app. He's in the same school and is a year older than me. Basically, the first month he was single then we stopped talking because something happened to his phone and during this time I found out he got back with his ex. A month later we started talking again, flirting and all that. He never mentioned a girlfriend to me. I met up with him and we drank, we just kissed and then I asked him if he had a girlfriend. He said he did but he doesn't think he loves her anymore, because he has feelings for me. A few days later he said they broke up and he told her he cheated on her but never said who. However, on facebook it says they're still in a relationship but I said nothing. My friend asked him about it and he said they did but she hasn't changed the status and he doesn't go on facebook.

This morning when I logged on, it said his girlfriend updated her cover photo to them kissing. Now I know for sure they are still in a relationship but still texting me and asking me to meet up.

I liked this guy but I just can't trust him anymore so I want to get back at this guy for lying to me and his girlfriend. I want to do something really bad... Any ideas?

I met a guy three months ago on a messenger app. He's in the same school and is a year older than me. Basically, the first month he was single then we stopped talking because something happened to his phone and during this time I found out he got back with his ex. A month later we started talking again, flirting and all that. He never mentioned a girlfriend to me. I met up with him and we drank, we just kissed and then I asked him if he had a girlfriend. He said he did but he doesn't think he loves her anymore, because he has feelings for me. A few days later he said they broke up and he told her he cheated on her but never said who. However, on facebook it says they're still in a relationship but I said nothing. My friend asked him about it and he said they did but she hasn't changed the status and he doesn't go on facebook.

This morning when I logged on, it said his girlfriend updated her cover photo to them kissing. Now I know for sure they are still in a relationship but still texting me and asking me to meet up.

I liked this guy but I just can't trust him anymore so I want to get back at this guy for lying to me and his girlfriend. I want to do something really bad... Any ideas? :D

I met a guy about three months ago on a messenger app on my phone, who happens to be in my school but a year older. We got on really well and eventually we met up. He didn't tell me he had a girlfriend and he apologized for being a 'dick'. When we met up we got a bit drunk and he minded me all night, and ended up cheating on his girlfriend because we kissed. We got on so well in person. He's such a sweet guy and he told my friend he really liked me and his current relationship wasn't working out and how he doesn't think it's meant to be since he likes me now. So basically, he told me they broke up last week only to find out from my friend today that they are still together. We're always texing and we flirt a lot so it's still cheating. His girlfriend does not know about me but she knows he did cheat on her and said I was a random girl. We're planning on going to lunch sometime soon.

I don't know what I should do now, should I just keep the texting going normally or say something about it to him?

I met a guy in November on bbm, we're in the same school and he is a year older than me. We talked constantly! Messing, flirting and just having a normal conversation. He called me beautiful, perfect and lovely. We didn't talk in December as he lost his phone. We started talking at the beginning of January because we became contacts again. We got a bit closer than before. We would stay up during the night talking until we fell asleep, wake up next morning and continue the conversation. He's so nice and funny and actually treated me right. On Friday he texted me and we talked until he said goodnight. There has been no texts since and I'm wondering what he could be doing? Mind games or just lost interest? There was no difference in how we texted however.

What do you think I should do?

Okay, I may sound pathetic and desperate but I really like him. We talked constantly and get on so well. We have this competition on who falls asleep first. He's so sweet, funny and nice. I just think he's perfect. I haven't done anything wrong, said nothing wrong so it's really confusing me. He texted me first Friday night, nothing Saturday and nothing today. I'm not a girl who likes to text guys first, I get really nervous about it. He made me feel so happy, happiest I've been in months and I don't know why it just stopped?

So basically, I met a guy on bbm back in November who's in my school and a year ahead. During November, him and his girlfriend broke up again because she keeps cheating on him. In December they got back together again.

In November, we texted everyday, until he lost his phone at the end of November. I didn't become contacts with him until January this year. Now we're always texting. For the past three days its constant, we just fall asleep and wake up next morning and continue the conversation. He tells me I'm really lovely adorable, cute, one time he said I was perfect and a few times he said I was beautiful. He's so nice, sweet and funny and I really like him. We see each other at school a lot and we both agreed its about time we actually talk in person.

He actually has never mentioned any girlfriend to me, I know from a friend. I really like him but since he has a girlfriend I think he doesn't like me but we always text so I'm getting mixed signals.

Any ideas?

I met a guy in November on bbm, he's in the same school as me but a year ahead. Basically, him and his girlfriend are on and off because she cheats on him. He went back to her in December and they are still in a relationship. Before the relationship, we talked about everything and flirted, late night chats and when we would see each other in school we'd smile. We got a little distant for a while when he lost his phone because I thought he was ignoring me. We recently started talking again when we became contacts on bbm.

Last night we were talking until about 3am. The way he talks hasn't changed even tho he has a girlfriend. He calls me adorable and beautiful, I'm really lovely and perfect. He's so sweet and nice but I'm just not sure if I could trust him because he's flirting with me while he's in a relationship.

I really like this guy because he makes me feel good and he's really funny.

I met a guy about two months ago on BBM , blackberry messenger. I'm 16, he's 17 and both in the same school. We haven't talked in person because we're both really shy. When we pass in the hall we just stare at each other and smile a bit. He did tell me to go to his locker but I never got the chance as my classes were at the other side of the school, however I am going to talk to him in person really soon. He tells me I'm really lovely and beautiful, we mess a lot and our conversations would go on forever, sometimes about nothing. The thing I really like about this guy is that he is so lovely, quiet and caring. He helped me get over a guy that didn't treat me right a while ago without himself realizing. I felt really happy, the happiest I have ever been even tho it was over text. During this time he had no girlfriend.

He lost his phone about a month ago, we only started talking a few days ago because we got each others BBM pin again. and started going out with his ex, again! She keeps cheating on him but I heard he "loves" her. They have been on and off for about a year, from what I heard she is a really bad girlfriend and I think he deserves better.

The thing is, I really like this guy and I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin their relationship so I was thinking of waiting until they break up again?

Also, I don't think this guy is one of those users because some of my friends said he's one of the nicest guys you could ever meet.

I met a guy about two months ago on BBM , blackberry messenger. I'm 16, he's 17 and both in the same school. We haven't talked in person because we're both really shy. When we pass in the hall we just stare at each other and smile a bit. He did tell me to go to his locker but I never got the chance as my classes were at the other side of the school, however I am going to talk to him in person really soon. He tells me I'm really lovely and beautiful, we mess a lot and our conversations would go on forever, sometimes about nothing. The thing I really like about this guy is that he is so lovely, quiet and caring. He helped me get over a guy that didn't treat me right a while ago without himself realizing. I felt really happy, the happiest I have ever been even tho it was over text. During this time he had no girlfriend.

He lost his phone about a month ago, we only started talking a few days ago because we got each others BBM pin again. and started going out with his ex, again! She keeps cheating on him but I heard he "loves" her. They have been on and off for about a year, from what I heard she is a really bad girlfriend and I think he deserves better.

The thing is, I really like this guy and I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin their relationship so I was thinking of waiting until they break up again?

Also, I don't think this guy is one of those users because some of my friends said he's one of the nicest guys you could ever meet.

I'm 5"7 and weight 150lbs. I was put on birth control 3 months ago but before I weighed 140lbs.

It's my first day on the diet and I gained a pound. I know its not much but I'm scared it will happen the whole time.

This is what I ate:

Breakfast, orange juice and a slice of wholemeal bread.

Lunch, water with two slices wholemeal bread

Dinner, small bit of chicken curry and rice.

I went to my dance class for and hour and a half and I was full sure I worked off at least half the calories I consumed today! Any ideas why I gained a pound? What am I doing wrong? I'm just freaking out that I'll keep gaining weight. I need to be down to 120-130lbs in 5 weeks.

This is a huge difference to what I used to eat. I could eat anything I wanted without gaining weight but since I was put on the pill I just gained 10 pounds.

I'm 5"7 and weight 150lbs. I was put on birth control 3 months ago but before I weighed 140lbs.

It's my first day on the diet and I gained a pound. I know its not much but I'm scared it will happen the whole time.

This is what I ate:

Breakfast, orange juice and a slice of wholemeal bread.

Lunch, water with two slices wholemeal bread

Dinner, small bit of chicken curry and rice.

I went to my dance class for and hour and a half and I was full sure I worked off at least half the calories I consumed today! Any ideas why I gained a pound? What am I doing wrong? I'm just freaking out that I'll keep gaining weight. I need to be down to 120-130lbs in 5 weeks.

I'm 5'7 and weight 140 lbs and want to be 120-130. I have a exercise bike and I'm just wondering how many calories I will need to consume and how long will I need to work out on the bike for to loose about 10-20 lbs in a month?

I've known this guy for about four years, last summer we started dating. We were really good friends and I really liked him. About a month later he just started going out with another girl, he ignored me, never told me that he was seeing another girl or he was sorry. He poked me through the relationship, and to this day, he still pokes me. I poke back but I poke back about a week later while he pokes back a day later. He hasn't talked to me since July, we've say hi now and again.

I really miss him as a friend. I've done everything to get over him and at one stage I thought I was. It's been five months since we last talked. I don't want to be the one to make the conversation because he never replied to my text in July (sounds pathetic). I just want him to talk to me first and get an apology just so I know he still wants to be friends.

What is he doing with these pokes and not talking to me at all?

I've known this guy for about four years, last summer we started dating. We were really good friends and I really liked him. About a month later he just started going out with another girl, he ignored me, never told me that he was seeing another girl or he was sorry. He poked me through the relationship, and to this day, he still pokes me. I poke back but I poke back about a week later while he pokes back a day later. He hasn't talked to me since July, we've say hi now and again.

I really miss him as a friend. I've done everything to get over him and at one stage I thought I was. It's been five months since we last talked. I don't want to be the one to make the conversation because he never replied to my text in July (sounds pathetic). I just want him to talk to me first and get an apology just so I know he still wants to be friends.

What is he doing with these pokes and not talking to me at all?

The past few weeks (about 3) I've noticed weird discharge. Its brown and sometimes has a smell. I have no itching or pain. I just finished my second pack of birth control (microlite). I had unprotected sex 8 months ago so maybe its caused by the pill? I said I would give it three months and see if it goes away. What could it be?

This guy is a year ahead in school and I got to know him from blackberry messenger. Thing is we have never talked to each other in person. When we see each other we stare until we can't see us anymore. I was going to say hi a few times but the way he stares at me I get confused. He's really nice to me. He tells me that I'm really lovely and that he thinks I'm beautiful and cute. He also said that he's really talkative.. and when he sees me he will give me a cuddle. He comes across as a shy guy but I'm also quite shy. I have no idea how to talk to him without making him feel awkward?