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Really like this guy but he has a girlfriend? Please help me!?
I met a guy about two months ago on BBM , blackberry messenger. I'm 16, he's 17 and both in the same school. We haven't talked in person because we're both really shy. When we pass in the hall we just stare at each other and smile a bit. He did tell me to go to his locker but I never got the chance as my classes were at the other side of the school, however I am going to talk to him in person really soon. He tells me I'm really lovely and beautiful, we mess a lot and our conversations would go on forever, sometimes about nothing. The thing I really like about this guy is that he is so lovely, quiet and caring. He helped me get over a guy that didn't treat me right a while ago without himself realizing. I felt really happy, the happiest I have ever been even tho it was over text. During this time he had no girlfriend.
He lost his phone about a month ago, we only started talking a few days ago because we got each others BBM pin again. and started going out with his ex, again! She keeps cheating on him but I heard he "loves" her. They have been on and off for about a year, from what I heard she is a really bad girlfriend and I think he deserves better.
The thing is, I really like this guy and I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin their relationship so I was thinking of waiting until they break up again?
Also, I don't think this guy is one of those users because some of my friends said he's one of the nicest guys you could ever meet.
6 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
What you should do is not force them to break up. If you break them up, he'll jut use you as the rebound girl, no matter how nice he is. You need to show him he deserves better than the girl he's with by being a friend and being there for him.
*Hope this helps :D
Source(s): my brain ;) - 8 years ago
From personal experience, I find that most relationships that begin off of bbm dont last. You should be friends with someone first to know if you're compatible for eachother. Although his girlfriend may be treating him badly, he is still with her, and has been for a long time. So clearly still loves her and wants to be with her. I also know (again from personal experience) it is a very bad idea to become involved with someone who has just ended a long term relationship, as feelings will often still be there and jealousy will occur. You should remain friends with this boy, and start dating people you are friends with first:) good luck
- 8 years ago
Just be his friend until they break up again. You don't want to be a home wrecker or look like a bad person. But if you prove to be a good friend through all of it then you'll have a good chance at getting him while he's single
- 8 years ago
Let the air clear between this guy and this girl he's dating on and off. Don't get involve in something that isn't settle yet. He might be a good guy but he has issues with this girl still. Just make sure he's available emotionally first. Try to talk to him and understand how he feels first.
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- Anonymous8 years ago
do not be the girl that breaks them up!! that is the worst feeling ever and hallf the time a guy wants a rebound girl just wait it out.
