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Does he like me but he has a girlfriend? Help!?

I met a guy in November on bbm, he's in the same school as me but a year ahead. Basically, him and his girlfriend are on and off because she cheats on him. He went back to her in December and they are still in a relationship. Before the relationship, we talked about everything and flirted, late night chats and when we would see each other in school we'd smile. We got a little distant for a while when he lost his phone because I thought he was ignoring me. We recently started talking again when we became contacts on bbm.

Last night we were talking until about 3am. The way he talks hasn't changed even tho he has a girlfriend. He calls me adorable and beautiful, I'm really lovely and perfect. He's so sweet and nice but I'm just not sure if I could trust him because he's flirting with me while he's in a relationship.

I really like this guy because he makes me feel good and he's really funny.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Hun...I really don't know what to think. But maybe he does like you, maybe his current relationship is stressing him out and he just needs support. It might just be closeness because you are always there for him or he likes you. You should find out soon. what if his girlfriend decides to be serious and hes done with you since his relationship is steady? I know she has cheated on him so basically he is still doing a wrong with flirty with you but its actually not a wrong since his girlfriend is always cheating. I suggest he get out of his current relationship if its hurting him and just go out with someone who actually wont cheat.(Like you) But he might just be a scumbag who this the same thing as his girlfriend when a relationship gets hard. -.- be careful dont let your feelings get the best of you Good Luck Hun! Sorry if this answer was confusing :/

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Your best guess would be to wait it out; if he's speaking and flirting with you even though he currently has a girlfriend then things are far from perfect.

    It's one of 3 things:

    He really does like you, and would possibly be interested in a relationship with you instead of his current cheating slut of a girlfriend

    Or he's insecure and just wants to feel wanted and loved by somebody who wont betray him utterly and completely

    OR he's an utter douchebag and just wants to play you for a fool and make you fall in love with him pointlessly.

    you should talk to him about it, ask him why he doesnt just completely stay away from his girlfriend

    Hope I've helped

    Source(s): I'm a "good guy", I know shit
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    That either means he likes you or he's starting to like you. If u like him, dont tell him yet. You should be like ''why do go out with her if she always cheat on u, you should get a girlfriend who is faithful to you'' You guys should hang out a lot more, so that he can like you more and make a move on u. Hope u end up with the best realationship ever! :)

  • 8 years ago

    That's a major red flag. If he is talking to you like that when he has a girlfriend, what makes you think he won't do that to another girl if he starts dating you? He sounds like a scumbag and so does his girlfriend. Date someone who is better than you. Never settle for less than you deserve. Good luck!

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  • 8 years ago

    From what it sounds like I think he likes you. Although, from what it sounds like he's in a relationship that he doesn't like. Some people stay in relationships that they don't like for different reasons. It could be that he's trying to make everything work out or anything else but, in my opinion he likes you. You don't have to slowly drift away from him but just be cautious and remember that he is in a relationship.

  • 8 years ago

    maybe he just thinks of you as a friend or there is the possibility that he actually dose like you but doesn't know what to say.

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