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will asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 8 years ago

red flags if woman had a llot of flings?

well I am the type to be in a serious relationship and commit to that person 100% but she admitted she had more then 12 or 13 flings in a year or 2. Some off of facebook and some in clubs.

is this a red flag for the future? or can a woman still commit. any of you woman who had a lot of flings and now 100% devoted to your guy?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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  • 8 years ago

    What do you mean by "flings"? She dated that many in one to two years; slept with that many; talked to that many? If that is something that puts up a red flag to YOU, don't pursue her.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    If she says she's done collecting STD's and ready to commit to a real relationship then yeah, she might be serious.

  • 8 years ago

    Sorry for all the answers that just don't seem to answer the question. If you're talking marriage with her, sit her down and let her explain herself. If she is earnest proceed with caution, building trust along the way. I am ashamed to say I used to be promiscuous, but am NOT ashamed to say that my husband and Jesus are now the center of my life at the age of 21 AND I am faithful to both!!

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    YES. Red flag. That probably means she can't stick with a guy for long/can't commit. I'm pretty devoted, so I can't really say, but I do think she most likely can't stay in a relationship and commit 100%, like you.

  • 8 years ago

    If you were going to carpool with a neighbor to take turns driving the kids to school and the neighbor had 12 or 13 DUIs, would you want them driving your kids?

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    I love women who share their love with multiple men haha and I want a piece of the action too ;P

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