HELP!!! What should I dooooo?

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I've been talking to this guy for like a week and according to our mutual friend he has a huge crush on me. Our friend told her mom who is friends with my mom an she keeps saying "oo Megan has a secret admirer at school" and i just keep playing dumb and now my mom and her friend are going to pick up that mutual friend from our college for winter break and I KNOW the guy I've been talking to is gonna be mentioned and the mutual friend is gonna say how we've been talking but I don't want that to happen because I don't want my mom to know!!! She'll make such a big deal out of it and will never stop talking about it. Please tell me what I should do when my mom brings it up. I'd text my friend and tell her not to say anything but were not close just friends through our moms so I don't have her number...reading this back I sound like an idiot lol thanks guys

Update:

Actually, "Lana" you wasted your own time by answering the question. And if you read the post entirely you would have the answers to all your questions. This world will forever be filled with rude, ignorant people.

Michael · Accepted Answer

haha this reminds me of my family, basically they (and it's usually always the mom) make a super big deal about everything romantic in nature, i think it's because they don't have enough going on in their own lives!  Initially i dealt with it by keeping it secret and getting embarrassed sooo easily, as you're trying to do, i found this totally the wrong way to g about it, you feel like perminarntly nervous about it! and they FEED off it if! and it feels like you're always trying to hide something.  So i did the opposite i just said straight out if i was taking a girl on a date and when they ask about it and make a big deal i'd just say straight out honestly without elaborating too much 'yes i like them hopefully things go well'.  At the time you think this will be super awkward and it is a little bit, but afterwards its the best feeling because you dont have to go secretly around you can do what you want!  After a few goes of this they learn to stop poking their nose in your business!

Soulsearch · Answer

Not a very clear post but I'll help as best as I can.

I only see two options available to you, one which is to silence your 'mutual' friend. I don't mean take her to the woods, shoot her and dump her body in a pond but talk to her and tell her not to mention this to your mom. Mutual friends have that problem where they cant keep secrets too well. Just text or call your friend and make her understand how important it is to you.

The second option, in case you are a bad shot or your friend is a good swimmer is to sit your mom down and have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her how you feel when your mom keeps talking about it and guilt her and stuff. Its a guarantee that she will stop to keep you happy though if not buy a sniper ( no shotguns, with your aim sniper is your only option ) and make sure you aim between her eye's to guarantee a sure kill. Also establish an alibi or the easier route is to plead insane, get sent to an asylum, break out by killing the orderly's and find a laptop and give some random stranger advice as I am doing now. =D

Seriously it'll turn out fine. You can contact me on my email if you need more help. BTW you do sound crazy but on the other hand there is no such thing as sane or normal.

? · Answer

omg JUST GROW UP! I can't believe you posted such stupid question under HELP!!! What should I dooooo? LOL LOL
you're worried about your mom making fun of you... Are you 12? Move on and don't waste my or other  people time

lotteda717 · Answer

Your mom is your mom.Ask her to not talk about your social life,explain to her the reason.Tell her you will keep her posted but, you want it to knot be a public issue. She will understand.

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