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Do guys ever shut up!?

Okay, I hate to sound ungrateful, or shallow. But several guys like me. Some for my personality, some for my body. I don't like any of them back. They all have my number.

Aaaaan they love texting me 24/7. I can't be that attractive or interesting, right? I dont mean this in a conceited fashion. I just don't like talking on the phone a lot (weird, considering I'm a teenager). I may be social, but I love peace and quiet.

I'm starting to think this is common among guys who like you, when they text you every five seconds. Am I wrong?

I don't want to be a doucheballoon and ignore them, or worse, tell them to f off.

Do all guys do this? Or is it just because I keep getting the weird ones?

Thanks for the help!

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  • Craig
    Lv 5
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    you're probably not as hot as you think first off.

    second, you gave them your number for a reason if you didn't want them to text you, you shouldn't have given it to them.

    third, they're probably just as desperate for attention as you are.

    Other than that I am the same way but I'm a guy, I won't text people unless they text me first and half the time I don't even text them back for hours because I have other things to do and a convo over text is boring.

    my advice would be to meet cooler guys that don't need attention to feel valued.

  • 8 years ago

    Hey girl, I totally know what you mean....sometimes guys can be so clingy. But then again do can girls! I know that when I text a guy that I like, I can be pretty clingy haha...it natural. Anyway, you should feel flattered but if you want, just be like "oh my phone is about to die, I'll text you later". Yeah, it's wrong to lie lol but it's just a small white lie...gives you at least a couple hours of peace and quiet and doesn't hurt their feelings. That's what I do when a guy texts me nonstop. So just think of an excuse and just don't be rude about it. Good luck! :)

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    4 years ago

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  • 8 years ago

    actually, you are one of those people who has charisma ... someday, you could be a celebrity ... in their minds you already are ... a girlfriend once told me "when you're pretty, you have to be nice to people" because they expect it

    here is my advice: keep playing this situation as a laboratory of ideas ... set a new trend ... make suggestions of new places to hang out, things to buy, things to wear or say ... find out what POWER you have like a sociologist and take the time you need for yourself ... in time, you may need these guys as allies or for your posse ... just work it and keep it in balance ... don't get attached to any of them and eventually they will fade away or start up your first fan club ... be smart and stay a step ahead of them ... it will intensify or fizzle ... and you will have learned a great lesson in life - namely, that it matters most what people BELIEVE rather than what is true or real

  • 8 years ago

    hahahahahahha. yes, guys can shut up. no not all guys do this. no you are not wrong about guys texting you because they like you because they want to know you better. just respond slower and take your time. text them once every 10-15 minutes. i think you have a problem if they text you, you dont respond, and they text you again like you didnt see the first one. that s*** is annoying,

  • 8 years ago

    You did say you were in high school, so that should answer your question..they are immature and don't know how to act around girls. Also, try not giving them your number..that would help. ooorr just ignore them, I've done it; it works quite nicely =)

    Also, how come you are saying your a teenager in this question, but in your last question you said your 23. Wow.

  • 8 years ago

    What guys are you hanging around? Coming from another guy I only text when people text me.

  • 8 years ago

    Its just that there obsessed with you.

    Do the right thing to tell them how you fell how they wont shut up

    Tell them "LEAVE ME ALONE" don't feel bad cause your doing the right thing, if you don't want them to bug you then tell them straight away.

  • 8 years ago

    You gave them your number. You are the one that needs attention

  • 8 years ago

    change your number, or just tell them straight.

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