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Friends with Benefits Inquiry...?

One of my guy friends proposed entering into a FWB agreement, since I am new to sex and would like experience. He offered, I did not ask. But he has never complimented me or told me I'm attractive. Is that inherent in the offer? We dated briefly but our personalities are only compatible as friends... When we stopped dating he said well, I can't see us together, but if you want to have sex call me anytime. I don't want to seem needy by asking. Is it inherent in the offer he has made three times over the two year course of our friendship, or will guys indeed sleep with any opportunity that presents itself? I am empirically pretty, and told I'm hot by others, but his opinion is the only one that concerns me at the moment. I don't understand. If you find someone attractive, wouldn't you compliment them once in a while?! Or am I overthinking?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    First, you're overthinking this.

    Second, he obviously finds you atrractive because, unless he's an addict, most guys go after what they find attractive.

    Third, he's basically looking for a lay and possibly trying to take advantage of your inexperience.

    Fourth, do you want this? If there is any hesitation in an answer or a doubt in your mind, don't.

    Fifth, these FWB situations rarely work because feelings get involved.

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