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How does a wife get past this?Am I weird?
I was raised with alot of respect for others and this is going to sound silly,But i have real problems with my husband letting gas off anytime any were at the dinner table constantly in bed and he sleeps nude.Plus every time I look at him he has his finger up his nose picking and I am so very grossed by this and to be honest it hurts how I feel about him.We have only had sex 3 times in a year we have been married?He says he cant and the times we did he took pills and rushed it and was selfish with attention I never get any attention in the intimacy way ay all .I need advise pls I feel like I am just a roomate he is older than I he is 60.
Please tell me why people read your question and then call you a bad name?.Grow up! My question is serious and I am 48 not a child and I don't think only of myself I respect others by taking my personal things were they belong and that is in the bathroom!Yes It is true only had sex 3 times in a year he has some issues and took pills the three times and I am not at all Saying I am beautiful but I am a pretty woman.Like I said I have never been with a man that would turn down attention in that way but yet watches dirty movies on his phone and on tv. and porn, I just don't get it?He is 60 and I am 48 .He even said he played me to get me he told my sister this because I have questioned him about how much he changed now has no energy and wont do anything we did while dating.So it is not even all about sex it is intimacy at all in any way.
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
You were obviously raised by good parents or you are just an amazing person who not only respects her own self, but respects others as well and expects the same in return. This guy seems like not having good rules of life put together and it is definitely not only embarassing in a social situation, but also in front of your own life-partner. There's nothing humorous in farting loud or picking your nose as some of the media seems to suggest. You can't change that and will never be able to do that in another person. I'm sorry to suggest nothing but a divorce and marry someone who does not act in such an ignorant way around you. You have lost his respect and he does not respect your presence at all. Sex only 3 times in a year? Are you kidding me? That right in there is another reason to get away from him as both of you obviously don't have the body chemistry as well.
Look back in your own life and it was only tough decisions that saved your life. Hopefully you'd get past through any hesitation to discuss the same with him as a reason to divorce, but still staying friends with him in a respectful way.
Source(s): My own parents and I'm 42 :) - 8 years ago
At 60 , he might be suffering Male Menopause or Erectile Dysfunction. Or the most likely thing is that he is a fat slob, you married at fat slob, usually these people don't have a sex drive because they biologically muted the sex drive to preserve energy. I know tons or 60+ people with tons of youthful energy
Source(s): I know tons or 60+ people with tons of youthful energy - 8 years ago
Older men are set in their ways and they know what they want. They are more mature and not so wishy washy. Obviously he trust you enough to be himself and you are taking that for granted by judging him. There is an old saying, "If you spot it, you got" Take a look at your own bad habits. Sounds like you think you don't have any.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
no probly now not i do know individuals who do this due to the fact that thats how they wash the puppy cuz they do not like getting rainy it's bizarre n nasty and makes me in poor health however i suppose if its less difficult for them to scrub the puppy that method then you haven't any factors to be worried
- Anonymous8 years ago
You sound like an idiot and I'm sure he was all you could get...
