Was I molested? Are these repressed memories real?

Blaming anything onto anybody outside of yourself is not a wise way to treat your life as you are giving power to others onto you. You will have a great start by loving your ownself as another person outside of yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror, notice all those wonderful things about you that your loved ones and friends told you about yourself. You are such an amazing and a precious gift of life on earth which is so unique and irreplaceable by anything or anybody in this big universe. It is not only your parents who created you, it is the "Creator" Himself who created not only your parents but all this amazingly beautiful universe. Start by walking barefoot on a wet grass any morning, seeing sunrise or walking on a beach, watching sunset, looking at birds, this immense sky and earth.

Wish could say more but you got the point :)

"Repressed memories" is a heavily over-used time era out between the lay public. It hardly takes place contained regarding heavily nerve-racking activities alongside with rape. All nerve-racking memories might desire to be dealt with, and the healthiest between us shove undesirable memories right into a compartment of our psyche the place they don't intrude with a meaning, efficient life. that frequently takes puzzling artwork, and in some instances counseling could make it a plenty much less puzzling procedure. Harsh memories have a habit of popping up at inconvenient instances, frequently while pronounced memories are introduced on via an identical occurring or condition to that which become in rigidity while the unique trauma exceeded off. however the healthful guy or woman acknowledges this for what it is and bargains with it and strikes on. At sixteen it is phenomenally puzzling because of fact the trauma is recent and coping mechanisms are nevertheless being more desirable. not all of them will artwork, yet some will. Time, somebody as quickly as pronounced, is the perfect drugs. The anguish does ease as time passes. It eases plenty extra right this moment while the guy actively seeks functional distraction, alongside with incomes promptly "A"s at college, engaged on the college play, partaking in band or refrain and community provider. provide 'em a try!

i think you need to a relationship as these are mostly common things cause your body is now getting mature and due to these changes this happen.

so let have a guy in your life.

No one here can help you. You have to find professional help. It is available even at no cost. Check with your school, church, whatever. There is help but not from anyone here.