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Guys only.........what do you think !!?
I went out with this guy for 3 months, not very long sure, but got into it quite deeply and fell in love with him......he went on a few dates with someone else a couple of months into it, and when I was upset, broke up....over text! It sounds bad, but I was really into him!!
A few months later we communicate again, I initiated it, and I am traveling so it was long distance, and he told me how much he still loves me, and flirting with me all the time, and sending me e-mails and calling me and saying he misses me.....but he’s also seeing that other girl now....and with me so far away he cannot think straight...
Now just yesterday I saw on a common’s friend’s status that they are having a bachelor party for him!! He hasn’t been answering my e-mails for the past week, and hasn’t mentioned anything like this at all!! Now he’s getting married suddenly?? He told me 2 weeks ago he still loves me!! I mean, wtf!!
I messaged him just casually and he said he was out for a few days, as he and the other girl are making it official soon so it was a bachelor party for him!! I wrote to him saying that he's quite a piece of work, and that I hope he can be faithful to her in the future.....and he goes,
"there's no reason why I shouldn't express what I feel for someone. As far as the engagement is concerned, we decided in the past few days, so there’s nothing wrong there!
All I can say is, my intentions were clear & in the open and were never meant to hurt you..if u really feel I deserve this kinda reaction, then I guess I should just apologize (like I did the last time around!), and hope for u to see things rationally some day"
I want to know how can he express feelings for love for someone and decide to get engaged to someone else a few weeks later and think its all fine? Does that make sense? What about how he's making me feel by saying all this and then backing off? I just want to know if I'm wrong for thinking this or is he right in what he's saying?
8 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Honestly, he was probably just horny when he messaged you all that lovey-dovey crap and then forgot about it when that other girl appeared. It's interesting how us men can have split personalities like that. It's happened to me before, luckily not to those extremities though, I didn't marry anyone luckily, haha. I'd say he is a jerk and you should move on. I also believe that you are in the right.
Source(s): Help me out with mine? :) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201212... - 8 years ago
Sorry for sounding insincere, but hes a bit pf a moron dont you think? If Im not mistaken, this guy should be a bit of a ladys man thats why you are so passionately in love with him, as are the other ladies hes been getting.
Hope that didnt come off as rudeness, I too have a problem and I hope for someones opinion too:
Two days ago 19th Dec, I met this girl on a free Melbourne tourist bus and we caught each others eyes a few times and smiled it off. Later we sat down together once seats cleared but I was unable to break the ice, but I felt really attracted to her. After I got off she finally waved at me and I waved back, but the doors on the bus had closed aand I was sure I would never see her again. The following day my gut told me I would find her again, and I did in the Melbourne markets, but I had to leave as my flight was set to depart soon to Brisbane. Now Im absolutely certain Ill never see her again but I still pray theres hope, what should I do? Also, I never caught her name nor any contact details.
- Anonymous8 years ago
I can think of two possibilities:
1.) He told you he loved you in an attempt to hook up one last time before he got married. You get used.
2.) He does actually love you still. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you are IN LOVE with them. Does that make sense? It's like the way you love a family member; you love them but don't love-love them, eh? He may still care for you, but he obviously moved on and loves someone else more. If he moved on, you should too.
- Anonymous8 years ago
What he did was wrong it's like saying to his fiance " Oh yeah I love you but I also love this other girl out there to but don't so much about it". But he did have to get it off his chest to engage himself to her. So he did the right/bad thing. Hope I helped ;^}
- ?Lv 78 years ago
i think the guy was trying to play you ---- delete him from your life never bother to talk to him again he is not worth your time ---- i would also feel sorry for the lady he is with now ---- he will cheat on her thats for sure
to those children that think there is difference between loving someone or being in love with someone romantically grow up there is NO difference --- you either love someone or you dont ---- you just use it as an excuse
- 8 years ago
No offense, but he doesn't like you
He is crazy about this girl and he is rushing into a marriage that I would give a year
He seems like a jerk, I would stop dealing with him
Source(s): I'm a guy - 8 years ago
You can't so long distance relationship. If you want your man to be faithful, you need to be there. Where ever he's at !