Help !!!Need Advise please?

I am far from being a "kid", so know a bit about all you're going thru. I believe the sex situation does have to do with his age. I too have gone thru the SAME situation. Three yrs. ago he got prostrate cancer, that ENDED any sex life what so ever. Not even the pills work any longer. Yes, we too have used a few different pills our family Dr. gave him samples. Some did work better than others, but we did however have sex MORE than 3 times in a yr. He did use pills, they did last longer than just a few minutes also. YOU however are a good bit younger, therefore would naturally have a much higher sex drive than him at age 60. We are both retired & older than he is. I dare say however, had he not had cancer, he still would be using the pills. The cancer has taken ALL sex drive away. As far as your other "situations", have you discussed how it makes you feel when he does things to totally gross you out?!? He certainly CAN "contain" himself & not chose to do those things while around you. There is NO excuse for that, but an occasional "accident". Nose picking he could use a tissue, a handkerchief, OR just plain go out of the room. IF you feel you need the impute of a Dr. for any of your situations, by all means talk to your family Dr. OR, you could get counseling that I also have done in my own life time which I can say does help. He MUST start making a conscious effort to start pleasing you. There ARE things that can be done to rectify them if he'll agree to them. I trust you CAN do something that will help bring happiness into your life. As I said, you ARE young, have a LOT of GOOD yrs. ahead of you. I trust you can find ways to bring you happiness...the best to you...:)

At 14 all you will have to be to each other is exceptional buds. Enjoy your friendship. Whether it is intended to be more, it is going to stand the experiment of time and and the separation should you go to unique colleges. And if you were not supposed for each different, who is aware of, maybe you two can be life long pals...Which is so infrequent, and so unusual :) So, stop disturbing about romance, and pay attention to the mysteries of algebra, in view that whether or now not you two are meant to be together, having a just right paying job is a wonderful factor to have :)

Kind of makes me wonder why you stay married to him. Farting in company simply means he has no respect for your feelings, is basically self centered and is inconsiderate to boot.

Guy prefers porn than the real thing when its offered to him on a plate? something is wrong here. Some of it can be self esteem issues, and he doesnt feel comfortable having real sex with a naked woman, watching porn acts as a substitute for engaging in intimacy.

Lots of life remains in a 48 year old woman. Hubby is 60 years old .... he is not going to change his ways.

I can not tell you how a wife could get past your hubbys habits ..... even a pirate would not put up with such habits ... toss him overboard, I say. C'est la Vie