How do i do it? I've been trying my A** off!!?

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I've just recently got out of a long relationship with a girl i loved and still love more than anything. She also has a daughter that I've known since she was 4 and now she's 9. The two of them mean more than life itself to me, but this girl I've known since I'm 18 ( I'm 34 now and we split up for 5 years, and she had he'r daughter with someone else) has been avoiding me and doesn't talk to me but calls me once I'n a while mostly when she needsmy help and has been playing with my heart. I've been so hurt i can't even tell u people. So I'm deciding to try and move on somehow. But it seems impossible. How do i get thru this?

Anonymous · Answer

my friend, it all depends upon if the daughter's biological father is in her life or not. if he is, then maybe you don't belong in her life. if the biological father is a long distance away, either physically, emotionally or both physically and emotionally, then there is an opportunity there to be a father figure to this child. then you have to ask yourself does this woman want to get back into a relationship with me? if she wants to be just friends then you would have to ask her if it's okay to be a father figure do her daughter. if you get married to her, then you can be her daughter's stepfather. if you do not marry her and you have permission to be her daughter's father figure, then you will need to check with the woman who you are in a relationship with to see if that's okay. you don't want to make your brand new relationship go bad, just because you were hanging on to the relationship as a father figure to your old girlfriend's daughter. good luck!

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AVOID HER have some pride be a man!

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How do i do it? I've been trying my A** off!!?

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