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I'm really worried about my friend...?
I don't want to say she's turning into a slut but in a way she kind of is. I mean she's not sleeping around. She's a virgin as far as I know but she's just dating a lot f guys. She had 3 different boyfriends last summer and while she has a boyfriend she still flirts with every guy that pops up. It all started when she went to church camp and on her way back she made out with this guy who she knew the year before and "dated" (texted) and decided to just be friends. He pretty much shoved his tongue down her throat and then played it off like it was nothing. I think that hurt her. Now she's dating this college guy. You want to know how they met? She was dating his best friend and now they are dating. I'm just worried that shell be willing to do whatever a guy asks her and I'm just worried.
2 Answers
- 8 years ago
We'll.. You can't loie her life for her. She's going to make her own choices in life and may make mistakes and learn the hard way.. But, as a Concerned friend (which I admire), you should tell get your thought (honestly).
Try asking questions that make her think about what is motivating her to want to always have a boyfriend and/or dating someone. Is it the attention? Self esteem issues? You know.. Stuff like that.
As for her new boyfriend who's in college and she used to date his best friend.. That sounds kinda suspect to me. If you feel comfortable I'd tell her in a nice way that people notice that type of thing and she could get a ”reputation” regardless of whether she actually sleeps with then or not.
There re a lot of messed up people in the world and a lot of diseases too. Tell her to be careful who she kisses and everything. Some guys and girls alike can get around and its pretty scary when you think about it., but ultimately it is her life.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Tell her how she is acting in a nice way not hurt her feelings and you and can both stay friends. Tell her that she is going to end up like a girl who has a boyfriend that does dope and that if she dates the wrong person that she will heading down a path that she will regret she needs to take a brake from flirting and dating someone she can find that person who will be there for her and not leave her for a girl with a better record or personality than from the man's point of view
Source(s): Experience