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Why isn't he going down on me?

I've been dating this guy for about a month now I recently just had sex. before then we used to make out and I did good on him but he never did to. Even during sex still didn't go dow on me. I really like him but I like a guy who will also go down on me. how do I get him to do that

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    There are ears on his head for a reason. Grab on, gently, and put his head where you want it if you are not mature enough to say "go down on me".

    If he doesn't "do that" you need to decide if he's the one for you. I would not be staying....

  • 8 years ago

    mmmm well you should have never gone down if he did not do it.... you gave it away to soon and should have assured yourself you would have gotten it from him... the fact that you are the only one doing it makes me think he is SELFISH, doesnt like to do it, and is waiting to see for HOW LONG he could get away with not doing it without you complaining. the moment you complain, is the moment he will look for another girl to go down on him.. It seems like this is what he has been accustomed to, and you are not the problem. a guy that likes to go down will do it with any girl... but there are some guys who will only do it if they are in love. so he is JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU regardless of whatever advice you get... he is not INTO YOU.... so what can you loose? nothing! so ASK HIM....Ive gone down on you, why havent you? Lets see if he had the balls to answer that question... what a piece of **** of a man you have...

    Source(s): experience
  • 8 years ago

    Well...there maybe many reasons. If you are just now starting to date, he may trust you enough to be going down.

    He may not like it in general, or he may not know you want him to.

    If you don't keep it clean down there, and look at at least trimming up the pubic hair, he may think it's nasty to have pubic hair in the way, so considering shaving or waxing.

    Other then that, the best thing to do, IS TALK TO HIM! Men aren't mind readers, every women is different when it comes to sex, and so you need to tell your man what you want.

  • LIPPIE
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Gee dating a whole month. You know you are just a piece to him, he wants sex any way he can get it, and isn't going to do anything more than is necessary to get off. Such a personal question, but then if your having oral only after a few times, why not.

  • Ali
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Push his head down there(not hard) when he's on top of you. That's what I do lol. My guy likes to do it, I just need to show him that I want it sometimes. Maybe same as yours.

  • 8 years ago

    Maybe hes disgusted and annoyed by your grammer and just wants wam bam thank you mam. Or your vagina stinks. And you've been going out for one month, and already gave him head? lol.. someones easy. I never did that till i got married..even then i receive more than i give.

  • did he check the smell down there and changed his mind instantly?

    Did he send a finger and secretly smelled it and decided not to?

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    you need to discuss it with him

    some men will never do that to you

    not in a million years

    only he knows why

    peace

  • 8 years ago

    I presume you are doing oral for him. Simply tell him no more from you unless he reciprocates,

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    "Men aren't mind readers" I like that answer.

    Next time you are doing the naked things you do with this new guy you are dating .....

    try saying this ...... EAT ME !

    yer welcome

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