Why do women only care about looks?

Not all women care about appearance. Though most do. And it's men, as well.

Culturally and socially, it isn't acceptable to not look a certain way. It's ridiculous but people will follow that stereotype. Appearance ALWAYS comes first. It's like asking for a job. If you look strange or lazy or messy, you will be hired at McDonald's and now somewhere more preferable. If what you look like isn't "appealing" no one will care to get to know your personality. I understand how you feel. Guys and girls do this to me all the time. I did meet someone two years ago who fell in love with me and I with him. He doesn't care what I look like at any time, because he says I'm always beautiful.

It takes a mature person to want to get to know you disregarding your features or lack of certain features. You want to date a mature person. It's a lot better. I know its or easy to find one.

Any girl who will call you a Frankenstein is probably Frankenstein herself. You're not a Frankenstein, she is. That is just bitter and shallow. She doesn't know you, she should say that. No one should call you ugly because I'm sure you have a great personality. There is someone out there now who's wondering what it's like to know someone like you. You'll find them soon. For now, f*ck the girls who are insulting you. Not worth your time.

Okay, first off.

You have not met every woman in the world.

So don't lump us all together.

Secondly, perhaps they find your personality ugly.

You don't hold yourself with confidence and you seem to feel sorry for yourself a bit too much.

Maybe you go after the wrong girls.

Maaaybe, you're only looking at their looks as well!

MAYBE, you're just attracted to rude girls.

I personally have no friends that would straight up tell a guy he's ugly.

I wouldn't want any, either.

It seems to me, that you have the wrong friends.

Branch out.

I would argue that people who call you ugly are not friends.

Perhaps you are not as good looking as your brother. All you can do it do the best with what you have - try being smart, clean well-groomed and well-dressed. Also stop moaning and feeling sorry for yourself. Now that is unnattractive.

I have to admit that some people are very witty answering questions. I love what this person wrote ".Enough with the pity party." well said and in a nutshell.

You'll find her, don't worry. Currently, I'm head over heels about a guy who everyone thinks is "ugly", and I'm considered "pretty". It's horrible, I agree. Let time take its toll, and trust me, you'll find her.

Enough with the pity party. How about you wait a while and not worry about dating yet?

Sh*t, what f*cking planet do you live on? Wear a mask and you might have a chance at getting laid.