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Asked a girl out got rejected...?

Super confused about the whole thing. Shes always flirting with me and what not. Its been painfully obvious that i like her. Asked her out and she said idk maybe you can take me out sometime but i think we should probably be friends...

Keep in mind this is after her telling me how thoughtful my christmas gift and stuff was to her.

Anyways my question is, should i convince her to let me take her out on a single date or should i just move on? I dont know if shes playing hard to get or not.

Talked to practically all my friends that are girls about her and they were all no fricken help!

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  • 8 years ago
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    I say move on. If she wants to play games, then she needs to play some other sucker. If she won't go out with you, then move on to the next one who may.

    If you want some helpful advice, try flirting up multiple young ladies. If you are finding yourself in between young ladies, flirt up at least five of them. That way when one of them rejects you or isn't interested in you that way, it is no sweat off your back. You have the other four that you are working on that may have you.

    Working only one chick is like putting all your eggs in one basket. When you are working one chick at a time, she is your only hope that she will go out with you and have a relationship with you. When you are working multiple young ladies, you have multiple chances of getting one of them to go out with you and have a relationship with you. When you are working one chick, you tend to appear desperate that your flirtations and interactions with her will work out. When you work multiple young ladies, you are more at ease. Who cares if she won't have you? There are the other young ladies on the side who will be happy to have me if she won't.

  • 8 years ago

    It's a really horrible thing that we do, but sometimes girls flirt with guys they're not romantically interested in.

    It sounds to me like she was trying to be nice and let you down easily by saying "maybe" you could take her out. Personally, if a guy asked me out and I thought there was romantic potential, I'd give him a chance and see how the date goes. If she's saying you'd be best off as friends before even the first date, she may have already written you off as someone she's not interested in dating.

    If you really like her, see if she ever comes around and asks you to hang out. I wouldn't suggest trying to convince her to go out with you. It would probably turn her off because she's already given you her answer and by being pushy you'd probably only convince her that she doesn't want to go out with you after all.

    You seem like a really great guy, it's nice that you put some thought into the gift you got her and it shows that you're attentive. Don't let one rejection hold you back, I suggest you move on and ask out some other girls, you're bound to meet someone. Hope I helped, good luck! :)

  • 8 years ago

    Go out with her at least once. Do your best to show her a good time.

    If you have a good time together, she might be more convinced that a relationship with you could work.

    If not, and you both end up miserable and she's still confused and wants to be friends, move on.

  • 8 years ago

    Well if she said she just wants to be your friend, it sounds like she is using you because she likes the attention and likes to know you're there as a back up. She probably likes leading you on and she sounds not worth it. I think you should move on. I hope this helped.

    Can you answer mine? You're a guy so I need your opinion.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    do not enable the rejection get to you... she might yet she's already taken... it extremely is it. Be her buddy. Have a great time together with her. enjoy her corporation. If it works out together with her present day companion, be chuffed for her and locate somebody else. If it does not, then see the place you stand together with her at that factor.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I would ask her again, maybe she thinks your taking it too fast, but if she doesn't want to go out,

    don't stop urself from dating other people. You can only play hard to get for so long until the person decides they're tired of chasing...

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Girls love attention from guys and guys love attention from girls, I mean who doesnt like to have fans. Think about it what if a girl was madly in love with you shes ok looking and always buying you stuff nice to you doing things for you. But you dont like her but everyone sees how desperate this girl is for you and makes you look good.

    DO you get it?

    --------SAM

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