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How do I convince him our ages and jobs won't be an issue?
There's this guy, who is a Marine, and is also a line cook at the same restaurant I work at (we're both line cooks, just on opposite ends of the kitchen). He's mentioned thinking of getting a different job and/or going back on active duty sometime soon, and I only work at the restaurant two days a week (I'm at college the other five), so we're in that gray area of the don't-date-a-coworker rule.
He's also 5 years older than me (I'm 19, he's 24). However...due to financial reasons, he's in a typical 21-year-old situation (not enough money for an apartment, cheap car, etc), his friends are getting engaged and he doesn't even have a girlfriend, stuff like that. And I've always been told I'm very mature for my age anyway...
So how would I get him to consider dating me even though I think he may have a problem with the age difference and work situation?
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
If he hasn't come out and said the age difference or working together are problems, then assume they aren't. 19 and 24 is not a major difference. Neither is working in a restaurant. It's not like either of you are trying to make a career out of that kitchen so it wouldn't be the end of the world if you broke up and one had to find a new chilli's to work at.
Ask him out. Flirt. If he's not interested, you can take it from there. Also, as I veteran I recommend you make a physical advance on this young Marine in order to alleviate any reservations he may have.
Good luck.