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How do I tell him he has bad breath without sounding rude?

Like I get it. He is my boyfriend and I love him dearly. But how do I tell him he has bad breath without sounding rude or making him feel bad? I am sorry but I do not think my lips can take anymore kissing of his lips with that kind of bad breath. Then when he talks about his day it's worse cause he sits right next to me. I brush my teeth like 3x a day at least and am also chew minty gum. You think I am asking too much of him to keep his breath fresh? Agh not sure how to go about this.

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  • Kenito
    Lv 5
    8 years ago
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    John, Being in a relationship means that you can say things to each other, and this is something he really needs to know.

    If you don't tell him, who will? It could be having a negative affect on him at work, etc., and people may be avoiding him.

    It could also be a dental or health issue... it needs to be addressed for his own good. Talk to him.

    When he comes home give him a kiss and then say, "uff... hon I think you brought lunch home with you... brush your teeth because I plan on giving you the kiss you deserve!" If he doesn't get the hint, then just say that there is something he needs to know, and perhaps only someone who loves him can say.... You will be doing him a favor.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Hi Hammie This rather depends on the reason for the bad breath. If it is just very poor personal hygiene then you need to offer him a breath mint or similar in a pointed sort of way. Alternatively you could demonstrate breathing into your hand and suggest he tries it. Just telling him is going to cause offence however you tell him. However bad breath is caused by a variety of things, including stomach problems. If he has a hiatus hernia or other stomach problems then this can cause this and there is little that can be done. Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You either tell him, or learn to put up with it -- and this is a case where you need to speak up because really bad breath = bacteria, which could mean he's got gum disease that you could catch. There is a REASON that people are repelled by bad smells.

    Tell him that you are worried about his health and would like him to see a dentist or doctor (bad breath isn't always from teeth.) When he asks why, tell him that his breath makes you think there's something wrong.

    it's going to hurt his feelings but it could save his health and your relationship.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    What a lot of these people say is true - but let me add something. He MIGHT have an ulcer, is not brushing his tongue, or isn't flossing, the first and last of which can have some very serious health implications.

  • 8 years ago

    This happened to me, A friend of mine offered me a mint one time, I said nah I don't want one and he said no dude you need one. So I accepted the mint. I have used that strategy on other people and it works but say it with a smile on your face and with a humorous tone in your voice. If they still refuse then ask them what color was the crap they ate for lunch. Some people need to be embarrassed in order to change their attitude.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Just ask him if he wants some of your gum and if he says no just say are you sure because no offense bu you need it honey. I do it all the time to my friends when they are smelling they call me you cheeky buggar then they grab all the gum

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Make him give you a bj and hide minty gum inside your foreskin

    Source(s): Or French and leave the breath mint in his mouth
  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    There is no polite way of saying it. You just have to inform him that he has bad breath and you would appreciate if he tried to change that.

  • 8 years ago

    Get him mouth wash for christmas he will get the clue.

  • 8 years ago

    ask if he would like gum constantly

    Source(s): me
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