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Does he want me to beg for sex?

I think his punishing me becAuse I held out on sex for about a month after I met him. the night I told him I was ready he made me wait till morning.the sex is great but I feel like he wants me to beg for it. we had sex last night after i made the move and this morning he tease me and left .the thing is every time he makes an advance I response all the way and this morning I wanted him to start the advance and take me all the way. And when I didn't respond back aggressively he didn't continue.is he playing games with me or I'm I just the horney one???

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  • 8 years ago

    He's playing games. He very much wants to feel wanted. I doubt it has anything to do with how long you waited to sleep with him. I think because the relationship is new he wants reassurance. I made my man wait over 9 months before we did it the first time and to this day after two years he will still make me beg for sex once in a while. Its an ego thing. Give in once in a while but dont let him make you do the first moves EVERY time, that gets tiring.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Well, if you didn't already know he's cheating on you. Most likely with one of his "friends" that are girls. Just stop begging guys hate that give him a little space pretend that your not interested for a little while don't call him all the time or text him all the time. And when you do that then he's going to start contemplating what's wrong what's going on then thats when he's going to bring the heat. Hope I helped.

  • Ranger
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You have a failure to communicate. You denied his sexual advances for a month. He now thinks that you don't care about his sexual needs, only yours. You have convinced him that you will have sex only when you want it, so he waits for you to make all the moves. He is not going to make the advances himself because he knows that will just end in frustration for him.

    You successfully trained him to be this way, now you are unhappy with the results. Either train him to make the advances or find someone else and treat them like you desire them, so they will know they can make advances towards you without being rejected.

    Source(s): rc
  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    You shouldn't be complaining cause there's a lot of lonely single people, just be glad u got somebody that loves u and stuff.

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