When a court order is in place can both parents mutually agree for other days?

sure, if you both agree to it, you can set up visitation to what is mutually beneficial. There is no law saying you can't be more lenient than what is put in the custody order, BUT if either person disagrees, they can fall back on the custody order and force visitation on those days only.

Most couples do go outside the custody order and make arrangements that are convenient for both of them as circumstances change. When that happens, think of the custody order as a safety net, if all else fails, you can still go back to the custody order and the court will enforce the custody order.

Example, You have a date Saturday Night, instead of getting a sitter, you call up your ex and ask if he is willing to trade custody this week end for next week end. If both agree, he has the kids this week end instead of next week end.

Neither figure has courtroom ordered custody as we talk. regrettably this signifies that she does not could enable him to make certain the youngster. not honest, yet he might want to do it to her. He would also keep the youngster if she lets him she her back. (If he's listed on the delivery certificate) Has your son filed in courtroom? If not he could ASAP. also he could get a signed receipt for any money presented to the mummy that he considers baby help. it would specifically say baby help on it. Emergency custody will be if the youngster replaced into in possibility. i do not trust they're going to evaluate this challenge a risky one. best of success

You do what you want but if you break the court order then that is your responsibility......as when you do something he doesn't like and he decides to go back to court and tells them that what ignored there orders before.................well you can say goodbye to the court being on your side...............

I would have ir in writing in case one of you change your minds. Make it as legal as you can. May God bless you for thinking of your child Merry Christmas

Yes set your own schedule if it works for the both of you.