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So the girl i like(d) just texted me after straight up rejecting me?
I say liked because i took it as a no when i asked her out.
I bought her a christmas gift gave it to her, she said it was thoughtful and what not. Then i told her i really liked her and would like to take her out some time.
She responded with "Idk maybe, but probably not." Needless to say i just took that as a no. She said something else about wishing we had a class together next semester and i just told her that was a good thing that we didnt.
Now she just texted me wishing me a merry christmas and thanks for the gift with all her stupid smily faces. Should i even text her back or just move on?
I really thought she liked me because she used to always send me all these texts saying i miss you, invited me out, etc. Make a long story short i feel played and i dont want to bother with trying if theres no shot
3 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
This is the part that's confusing.
"She responded with "Idk maybe, but probably not." Needless to say i just took that as a no. She said something else about wishing we had a class together next semester and i just told her that was a good thing that we didnt."
She's definitely sending mixed signals. The "probably not" is a definite NO. But "wishing you had a class together..." is a "probably" so it's really hard to tell and I feel for you.
However though, if she even remotely liked you, she would have said "YES' to a casual lunch or coffee but the "probably not" is saying, look somewhere else and that's what I would do.
Forget about this chick, she's too wishy-washy if you asked me. I don't like people who send mixed signals. Life's too short for mind games.
But you will find someone, that I do know. You sound decent and kind. Give it time. It's when you're not looking when you'll find it.
Good luck to you. Merry Christmas.
- 8 years ago
i think u shud try once more, and if she rejects you again, and make sure she actually FOR CERTAIN that she doesnt want to date you. dont just make her say something like "no, im not sure if i want to" or something like that. actually make her tell u an actual decision. if she rejects you, then take some time to get over her and start again on another girl. dont worry. there are plenty of fish in the sea~
- Anonymous8 years ago
Move on. She wants to play games. Ignore her.
