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Relationship loose ends...?

So...I have some questions...looking for advice...

On my (was soon to be, now unsure, fiancé) girlfriends phone a a few weeks ago, I found a picture of a guy showing his dick on her phone...she said it was from a 'sync' of old photos on her computer. My rationale was that it should not have been on either. The relationship her and I have is very serious and growing (as far as I can tell).

I got divorced before we got together and one of the things I made 1000000% of before I moved on was to delete EVERYTHING of my ex and I...she says this photo was of Ab ex

I used her iPad today and a Skype notification popped up...her 5 contacts included me, her mother and 3 guys. When I used her iPad to search for something on yahoo, a history search popped up as I typed that said "how to ask guys out."

Am I legitimately paranoid or is this something to question?

When I say anything she gets extremely emotional and says I'm trying to find something to pick on her about...

I don't feel like I can trust her completely.

Thoughts?

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  • 8 years ago
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    You're on the fiancé stage. You should be able to trust her. Now with that said you need to have a talk with her. Let her know how much you love her, this will let her know you're coming from a caring place and not just trying to pick a fight. Then tell her what's bothering you. Don't be upset about the picture. But do make sure she has erased it. Remember we are all different and just because you took the time to make sure every aspect or ur past relationship was erased, that doesn't mean everyone else will go about it the same way. She probably didn't give it a second thought. She should have deleted it by now though. The friends on Skype doesn't mean anything wrong. They're friends. Ask about them without sounding like you're jealous. She will feel you don't trust her. If anything I would bring up the how to ask a guy out. I'm sorry to say that if she is being deceitful she'll have more than enough excuses. So this will be up to you. Can you tell when she's lying. Do you even trust her to tell you the truth. Trust is so important so if you don't, it really doesn't matter if she's being honest. You'll always have doubt. Talk to her, if you tell her these things hurt you rather then upset you, she less likely to argue about it. But actually listen. Best of luck.

    Source(s): My head.
  • 8 years ago

    yah trust is everything. i dont think yall should be engaged just yet.

  • 8 years ago

    trust is always important

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