crying on christmas. i wish i could understand! :( please help?

In your case, I would suggest giving your time and compassion to a charity for Christmas. There are thousands of unloved or just unfortunate people out there who would always appreciate a helping hand. You may not get "love" from that, but you would be thought of endearingly.

As for receiving love, perhaps you are giving too much of yourself to people who don't deserve it. Love is a give and take, it is not a complete charity case. Someone who loves you will love you even when you can't give them your best. Stop wasting your best on people who take it for granted, and save it for someone who will cherish it. We can't keep running on empty, sooner or later you will burn yourself out. Have love for yourself right now and keep your heart open to the kindness of others. They're out there, you'll find people. Share your kindness with them. :) Good luck! Merry Christmas.

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We all go through it... i dont have a boyfriend mine jus got wit another girl nd never tld me about it... but my sister died in 2006 nd i ask myself the same question every year why am i alone..... but im not i have family nd friends... we dont need a man or female to make us happy we need to believe in ourselves nd what we do... we give nd give nd give but the lord knows what he is doing nd in return u will meet the greatest guy nd u wont get less than u deserve u will get everything nd more.... merry christmas sweet heart.. nd kno that ur not the only one out there but we jus gotta get through it the best way we can nd believe that the lord knows what he is doing.. good luck to you

I can only tell you what I do, hope that is OK. I trust God, and not saying you don't, either.

But in trusting God, I get in 'touch' with Him as my source, not people.

People are just too needy, as you put here, and just don't have anything to give

back to me. They would if they knew what to do: they don't. So when I give,

I know that. Don't expect anything because....

there isn't anything for them to give to me.

How does 'thanks' actually help us anyway? Might be nice to hear it, and it is,

but it can't pay for what you did. We can't get paid for what we do.

Only God can 'pay' us. And my return to God is to do things for others

and not expect anything they can't give to me. Knowing what I did also

blesses me.

You have needs, and they deserve to be fulfilled, but people can't do that for you.

Only God can do that.

Love is something we all need. That should be the only thing you ask in return. Maybe you should do something like this to brighten your spirits: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtHPGP5tKWo.

same here, that's why i just troll the more privileged people on yahoo answers and it makes me feel better.