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Ex gf broke up with me a year ago and wants me back now, what would you do?

She broke up with me a year ago and i heard rumors that she cheated on me with a guy and a girl. Around thanksgiving she started talking to me and we have been talking again and hanging out. We have good chemistry, really great sex, and a lot of fun. On top of this shes been really good to me, not being too needy, giving me space, being understanding, and shes taken me out to her sorority parties and introduced me to her new friends and iv had a lot of fun. she told me one day that she did not have sex with a girl and that the girl was crazy and making a bunch of things up, and that she never cheated on me with the guy either. Now i dont know if its true or not true, because i dont trust anything she says. what im trying to figure out though is do i go forward with this, because we have great chemistry and we both have our own lives now (we were together for 4 years prior) and things arelooking a lot better. not to mention despite being with other people during our 1 year breakup I still felt like something was missing in my life. since weve been talking and being just friends (yet still hooking up) I feel like my life is whole again and I feel really good and balanced and at ease with myself. So I guess what would you do, keep talking to her because she makes you feel good and it feels right and shes been so good about everything, or just turn and run because its possible shes lying and really did cheat on me.

p.s. she broke up with me because she joined a sorority her 2nd year at school and i really didnt like the idea of it and our relationship just went really sour and i kind of made a few big mistakes like punching one of her guy friends in the face.

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  • 8 years ago

    If she tells you she didnt cheat on you and you really like her then go for it..if you want her to be the girl yoll married and have kids with give her that second chance..but if its all bc of the sex part just keep on having sex with her and try talkig to other girls and hopefully youll find a faithful one and get attahed. Then youll leave your ex.

    Ive been in the same situation and i gave it a second chance..i dn regret it bc she has shown me that she truely loves me. We are getting married in a few months and since you have been with that girl 4 yrs before i say you should give her a second chance since she gave you four great yrs..if you still dnt trust her then try to leave her but dnt tell her that you are..just stop showing her love and youll start loosing your feelings...

    Goodluck

  • 8 years ago

    Flip a coin, if the side you land on gives you a glimpse of happiness of excitement or relief then go with it, if it makes you feel scared,worried,sad or panic then dont do it

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You feel whole and balanced.. No need to go back. .Good for you. its just a chapter in the book of your life..

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