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I get this a lot from women, they say I have an adorable smile or I am cute.

I asked my professor after class if we could talk in her office because I missed a day and it was the day she gave back a test and I wanted to get my score. She said yes to meet me in her office in 15 minutes. So I go to her office, she shares it with 1 other professor, both female. I sit down just around the corner of the entrance to their two doors where there is a little table and some chairs but I am not visible.

She gets into the office and immediately starts talking to the other professor about her problems with her husband and how he doesn't satisfy her or give her enough time. She tells the other professor she is wondering about having an open marriage because things just aren't working out and she needs someone to see a movie and spend the night with.

Then she comes around the corner and says "Oh hi, sorry I was a little late I forgot you were coming down here, come into my office."

So I go in and get my grade, make small talk, and go about my day. Anyways I found it odd she could forget I was there since we just talked 20 minutes prior. She is pretty attractive and I would totally be down for it, especially since her husband is wealthy and I doubt she would leave him. No strings attached basically. And the guy is a short bald dweeb and I am tall, athletic and handsome. I would love nothing more than to satisfy her needs.

Anyways do you think its a coincidence and an accident or do you think she may want to bang? If bang, how should I set it up?

I think things are starting to happen between this girl and I. There has been sexual tension for a while, but recently things have ramped up. Here are some signs that are happening. Proximity, we are always ending up next to each other. Eye contact, She winked at me last night while she was on the phone and we make eye contact often. Verbal, I complimented her the other day and it went down really well, she said to me "i wish you were there", when referring to and outing i missed with our friends. Physical contact, when sitting next to each other we are very close and make a lot of contact with our bodies arms and legs. So I think I feel like there is a mutual interest that is slowing becoming stronger. I would like to keep taking it slow and seeing where it goes? Any advice from guys or girls would be appreciated.

We started hanging out around september. she was always saying how she didnt have plans for christmas so i invited her to my family party, i know it was way too soon but she literally kept saying she was sad she had nowhere to go. (her family is out of town). so she was really excited and said she would go, and then come xmas night she never came. i was fine with it, i had a good time. the next day i called her to see if she wanted to hang out and she ignored my call, and then texted me that she was busy and would call me later. she messaged me later and said she had broken out in a rash and was tired from taking medicine and would call me some other time. so this weekend goes by and i dont call her or hear from her and i got home last night really drunk at like 2 am and she left a message on my phone (which died) saying she got in a bad car accident. when i called her the next morning to see if she was ok it said that verizon had restricted my call. i assumed she blocked my number but didnt know for sure. so i called her from a different phone and she answered and asked who it was. i told her it was me and asked her if she was ok and she gave me the story and said she was ok. anyways i asked her what she was doing that day if she wanted to get together and she just blew it off saying she had to take care of insurance things. she denied she blocked my number but i tried calling her multiple times and got the same message. can someone tell me what the **** is going on here. is she ******* crazy?

Acts really outgoing around other people, but more shy and reserved around me. Laughs and smiles a lot, and makes an effort to be around me. Seems a little nervous or shy when saying goodbye or hello to me but not with others. We dont know eachother that well so she could just be a little shy around me, or maybe she has a crush on me, or maybe she thinks im a freak. I cant tell which, although i dont think its the latter (women usually find me charming). Anyways i find her delightful, whats your opinion on the matter.

Acts really outgoing around other people, but more shy and reserved around me. Laughs and smiles a lot, and makes an effort to be around me. Seems a little nervous or shy when saying goodbye or hello to me but not with others. We dont know eachother that well so she could just be a little shy around me, or maybe she has a crush on me, or maybe she thinks im a freak. I cant tell which, although i dont think its the latter (women usually find me charming). Anyways i find her delightful, whats your opinion on the matter.

when me and my friends go out or hang with our friends that are girls one of my friends changes. he starts picking me apart in front of them or making fun of me. its really pathetic and im pretty sure he only embaresses himself as i take no offense from it, but it does get anoying and makes me question if he even likes me. im sucessful with women and im attractive, iv had a few g/fs and lots of experience with women and my friend i believe is a virgin. that being said how can i stop this from him. i just want him to not like feel threatened or the need to make fun of me for no reason, as its embarassing we are all friends we should be looking after eachother and helping eachother. whats his deal?

i have a friend who is really cool and fun guy to chill with. we have been friends for like 15 years and we see eachother a lot. he is always cool to me and we share interests with our group of friends. but around the girl he likes (or any attractive girl really wen we are out at parties or w.e) he acts like a total dick to me. he will call me gay and just rip on me for any reason he can find really. a lot of girls find me physically attractive and think im charming, and i by far have the most experience with women (my friend is a virgin, iv been with my fair share). the girl im talking about in particular i have not ever hooked up with but we are friends and i enjoy her company and enjoy making her laugh or having a good time around her. my friend gets really quiet and acts different including the making fun of me. i have no big issue with it other then it makes me question our friendship which sucks. i mean i dont believe the things he says as i have decent self esteem, but it does get anoying after a while as well. why does he change around this girl and other attractive girls when we are around them. none of my other friends do this. any kind of meaningful answer will be greatly appreciated..i mean does this guy even like me?

what does that mean..compliment or insult?

This girl at a party was being approached by every single guy there. she was beautiful and without doubt the most attractive women there. she introduced herself to me (she did to all my friends) and throughout the night if we interacted it was only me teasing her. towards the end of the party when everyone was leaving i was sitting on the end of a couch and she came up to me and sat down on the chair of the couch and sorta fell down next to me, falling into me. she got up and sat next to me for the next 15 minutes and we had a conversation with some other people that were around us. we had similar interests and it was going good until a cop came and knocked on the door complaining about a noise complaint and everyone immediatly got up and went to other rooms to sorta get out of sight. after this i tried to get next to her but some other guy literally stole my seat and started talking to her, she looked at me and offered me her seat, but ofc i said no thank you. i went into the other room and then my friends were leaving and i sorta ran out because they were in a hurry before i had a chance to say bye/get her number. thing is its my friends new house and its most likely ill meet up with her again there. am i ****** for not getting her number the first time or do i still have a shot? or did i never have one. i just want to add i am a pretty confident guy whos comfortable in his own skin, and i played the hole situation very cool the entire time and even though many guys approached her, i was the only guy i saw her approach all night.

i met a girl and im crushing on her. i hate this, iv spent the last 2 months crush free and it was great. how do i go erasing this

This girl at a party was being approached by every single guy there. she was beautiful and without doubt the most attractive women there. she introduced herself to me (she did to all my friends) and throughout the night if we interacted it was only me teasing her. towards the end of the party when everyone was leaving i was sitting on the end of a couch and she came up to me and sat down on the chair of the couch and sorta fell down next to me, falling into me. she got up and sat next to me for the next 15 minutes and we had a conversation with some other people that were around us. we had similar interests and it was going good until a cop came and knocked on the door complaining about a noise complaint and everyone immediatly got up and went to other rooms to sorta get out of sight. after this i tried to get next to her but some other guy literally stole my seat and started talking to her, she looked at me and offered me her seat, but ofc i said no thank you. i went into the other room and then my friends were leaving and i sorta ran out because they were in a hurry before i had a chance to say bye/get her number. thing is its my friends new house and its most likely ill meet up with her again there. am i ****** for not getting her number the first time or do i still have a shot? or did i never have one. i just want to add i am a pretty confident guy whos comfortable in his own skin, and i played the hole situation very cool the entire time and even though many guys approached her, i was the only guy i saw her approach all night.

This girl at a party was being approached by every single guy there. she was beautiful and without doubt the most attractive women there. she introduced herself to me (she did to all my friends) and throughout the night if we interacted it was only me teasing her. towards the end of the party when everyone was leaving i was sitting on the end of a couch and she came up to me and sat down on the chair of the couch and sorta fell down next to me, falling into me. she got up and sat next to me for the next 15 minutes and we had a conversation with some other people that were around us. we had similar interests and it was going good until a cop came and knocked on the door complaining about a noise complaint and everyone immediatly got up and went to other rooms to sorta get out of sight. after this i tried to get next to her but some other guy literally stole my seat and started talking to her, she looked at me and offered me her seat, but ofc i said no thank you. i went into the other room and then my friends were leaving and i sorta ran out because they were in a hurry before i had a chance to say bye/get her number. thing is its my friends new house and its most likely ill meet up with her again there. am i ****** for not getting her number the first time or do i still have a shot? or did i never have one. i just want to add i played the hole situation very cool the entire time and even though many guys approached her, i was the only i saw her approach all night.

Two canker sores appeared in my mouth saturday morning. one on my lip and one in the back left side of my gum between my teeth and cheek. the one on my lip has healed, but the bigger one in the back that is more easily irrateted has not healed yet. the pain has decreased significatly however and i no longer need ibprofin to control the pain. however i have a numbness around the area of the sore that it hard to explain. it gets worse when the pain is worse which is typically right before bed and when first waking up, and it causes me to drool like crazy all over my pillow. has anyone else has this numb sensation around a canker sore before and is it normal? really worried about this any answer greatly appreciated thank you!

I got pulled over tonight for not coming to a complete stop at a stop sign, and my car wasnt inspeceted either (it was due to be inspected in december so im a month short). I explained to the cop I was jsut making a run to the grocery store and thats why I didnt have my liscense on me. He said ok and went to his car and wrote me two tickets for no liscense and no inspection. When he got back I said to him did you really have to write me a ticket for not having my liscense, I just ran out of the house for one second, he looked at me and said you know what you jsut got yourself two more tickets and went back to his car and wrote me two tickets one for not stopping at a stop sign and one fore not wearing a seatbelt (i was wearing my seatbelt). When he got back I said you just overreacted for no reason and I feel completely disrespected and he started yelling at me threatening to arrest me and write me more tickets, i asked him what else he was going to write me a ticket for and he had no response and he said you better turn around in your seat and get out of here before i arrest you (he yelled it at me). During this whole time i was completely respectful and wasnt rude to him at all but he was being very threatning and rude to me and speaking loudly and trying to intimidate me. I feel very threatened and honestly not safe at all around this type of cop behavior (for not coming to a compelte stop on a not busy road at a stop sign, i literally was pulled over right out front of me own house). Do i have any recourse of action here, or is there absolutely nothing i can do?

sometimes when im drunk i get really pissed at other guys for trying to get with a girl i like or something. i also can be rude to girls, and just a downright asshole. i really dont know if its just because im insecure or drunk, and i dont know if other people even care, but im just wondering what my problem is. i was bot popular in highschool but now that im a little older (22) and i get lots of attention from girls and am attractive, i wonder if being a looser in highschool is still haunting me.

My ex broke my heart once, and honestly it hurt. But in short, she makes me really happy. Shes in love with me again, and weve been hanging out. I like her a lot but im scared that im making a mistake if i trust her again. the thing is, everytime i go out i realize that no other girl is going to make me as happy, and i realize that i really hate the games people play for love, and how lonely a lot of people are. So on one hand i appreciate everythung we ever had and all that we may have in the future but, on the other im worried that ill be making a mistake. she makes me very happy, and we have great sex, and shes beautiful but i just dont know what to do.

iv been sleeping with my ex and we both agreed to be just friends but now shes saying i love you and i miss you. its been like a month and we have been sleeping together a few nights a week, should i be concerned shes falling back in love.

This girl literally told me that she has never had good sex before me. Im a little suprised because I have had my share of great sexual encounters (my share of bad as well). But this girl is 21 and it doesnt make much sense that she hasnt has good sex yet, is that possible? Im 23 and just started sleeping with her, the sex is really good, and at times its veryyyy good. so girls, is it possible to have not had good sex at 21 years old?

She broke up with me a year ago and i heard rumors that she cheated on me with a guy and a girl. Around thanksgiving she started talking to me and we have been talking again and hanging out. We have good chemistry, really great sex, and a lot of fun. On top of this shes been really good to me, not being too needy, giving me space, being understanding, and shes taken me out to her sorority parties and introduced me to her new friends and iv had a lot of fun. she told me one day that she did not have sex with a girl and that the girl was crazy and making a bunch of things up, and that she never cheated on me with the guy either. Now i dont know if its true or not true, because i dont trust anything she says. what im trying to figure out though is do i go forward with this, because we have great chemistry and we both have our own lives now (we were together for 4 years prior) and things arelooking a lot better. not to mention despite being with other people during our 1 year breakup I still felt like something was missing in my life. since weve been talking and being just friends (yet still hooking up) I feel like my life is whole again and I feel really good and balanced and at ease with myself. So I guess what would you do, keep talking to her because she makes you feel good and it feels right and shes been so good about everything, or just turn and run because its possible shes lying and really did cheat on me.

p.s. she broke up with me because she joined a sorority her 2nd year at school and i really didnt like the idea of it and our relationship just went really sour and i kind of made a few big mistakes like punching one of her guy friends in the face.