Does she like me as more than a friend?

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So i have recently come to terms that I am a lesbian. I am not out to any of my friends or family yet...anyways there is this girl who is "straight" and I have been friends with her for at least 7 years and recently I have seen some changes in the way she acts towards me. First of all she always calls herself a "germaphobe" so she doesnt like to hug people or anything like that. But recently one day she says to me can i escort you to class? and then she locks her arm with mine..im not sure if she is being friendly or what...but for the past month or so she has been doing it everytime we walk to class together and does it automatically. Second one day in class we were talking about gays and people being homophobic and she all of a sudden gets defensive about it and starts saying how it shouldnt matter who you love and she acted like she was actually really angry. Thirdly one day me and her were by our other friends and i was sort of teasing her because she wanted to play a game on my phone and i kept running away and not letting her have it after i finally let her have it she said thanks baby.. and my other friend heard it and said woah you just called her baby you got something to tell us here? and her face got all red and she didnt say anything...so what do you guys think? am i being to paranoid about this and she is just acting friendly or is there something else? I would really like some advice, sorry this is so long! Im just realy confused and i dont want to ruin our friendship!

Update:

Thanks so all that responded so far! There all good answers

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well in my opinion i would say she starting to have more then friendly fealings for you and for her defending *gay* people i would say shes figering out who she is and is un certen how others will react have a chat with her and im shore she will  open up just make shore your understanding if she dose open up :) by the way im a lesbian too :)

puppet · Answer

I'm not so sure, girls who have been friends can old hands, call each other baby, sweetheart, whatever" at times based on context. It does not mean anything romantic. Just ask her up front and explain to her why are you confused about her behavior after knowing her for such a long time. let her know what exactly she does which is confusing and see where it goes. but, be ready for the eventuality she says she likes you more than a friend. until, then don't admit to any feelings for her. Just say you are curious about this behavior.

TheNamesCharity · Answer

Well to start off the question is do you like her . Becaus if you do you should tell her and ask does she have any feelings towards any girls or you . Try asking in a simple way but not making it an uncomfortable conversation . Plus it really sounds like she likes you because I know when I play around and call a girl I like baby & hold her hand/lock arm around her I, it means I like her .

•~_~•Haiii•~_~• · Answer

I think she likes you. Now it's just if you like her back :P... Actually a better answer is, you should tell her your lesbian, since you know she's fine with lesbians. Then I she knows your lesbian, she might come out too. Therefore you have two lesbians.  Now that's cleared up it could be like a normal love situation for you 2

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Does she like me as more than a friend?

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