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IM I shelfish??? 10 pts?
So I don't have kids..But I've been coming across alot of guys that have them.. But I want a guy with no kids.. So that we could share that first time parents experience.. I was called shelfish for this.. And I don't think so...10 PTA for best answer
3 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
No you are not selfish at all, you just really want someone to be able to expereince the miracle of child birth for the first time with you so you can share a special bond with that person and make yall love grow stronger for eachother by sharing that very bond so dont listen to thoseidiots outthere that say this you are in no way shape or for selfish!!!
- ?Lv 58 years ago
I don't think that is selfish... You are limiting your choices, but theres nothing wrong with that either. You have boundaries and priorities... Good for you! A relationship when there are kids involved takes on a whole new dimension, and it is definitely not for everyone! You are doing the right thing, waiting for what you want in life and not being pressured into 'settling'. Kudos!
- Anonymous8 years ago
No, not selfish at all. Don't compromise on this if you feel strongly about it. Men with kids always have a tie to their exes weather they like it or not and yes it may work out but chances are it won't be easy. I agree with you on this.