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What do i do now? Lost my girl, my friends, and now my life?
Growing up I was never the coolest kid but u could say I was average. In 8th grade I had my first gf and she was really hot so that brought my popularity up a lot and I just felt like I was on top of the world. Eventually though after7 months I found I she was cheatin on me and I guess I did some stupid stuff and I had it coming for me but I broke up with her and she ended up going out with the dude she cheated on me with. It was her ex by the way. Its been about a year now and my life has changed dramatically. I lost a lot of friends because I lost most the the little popularity I had wen me and my gf broke up and now i just fee like a loser. I have basically no life now because I'm no good looking really or have the best personality. I have no clue how I got a gf in the first place but I guees I just didn't realize wat I had until it was gone. My question is though, what now? I'm ugly, a loser, and I'm so bored of having nothin to do on the weekend anymore !
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- Anonymous8 years ago
Its time to reinvent yourself. I was once in your shoes, pretty much the same story, a little different but the cheating, popularity crap all happened to me. What you need to do is create the life you want, its all in your control. I will recommend a few different things you should do and why. 1) Change your diet up, that doesn't mean you need to lose weight, but start eating healthier. This will help improve your mood, help you have more energy, positive attitude, and just see life in a better light.
2) Hit the gym. This has too many benefits its unreal. Alright so your young clearly, either just in high school, or about to go into it. Girls love great bodies. The gym will actually make your body release good chemicals which make you feel really good, I mean really good. You will become a better athlete. All these things together will make you an attractive guy to the girls. Exercise goes a long long way.
3) Pick up a sport if you don't already play one. This combined with the exercise will make you a great athlete. Great athletes stand out. When you stand out you gain friends, girls like you, and you will be popular for helping your team win games.
4) Stop comparing yourself to others and stop caring what people say or think. You can't be friends with everyone, there will always be someone who is jealous of you, doesn't like you for some dumb reason like you hair is brown or your too tall etc. Just focus on you right now, get to a point where you like you, that is what matters honestly.
5) Your really young, I know your whole world right now is based around the school you are in, but wait 5 years and your eyes will really open when you get to college. All these kids won't be there and you will have a whole new opportunity to start fresh. For now though make the most of what you can. You can only change you, no one else.
If you follow these guidelines you will get back to a place of happiness and friends, girls and everyone will come to you rather than vice versa.
Eating a good diet and getting exercise can really really help improve your self image. I would start studying bodybuilders. This way you can get an understanding of how to improve how you look, feel, act, and come off to others. Trust me, this has worked for me (Im 23 now) and has worked for guys all over the world, it will work for you too. Make sure you do your homework about how to body build. Get the book- Arnold Schwarzenegger's Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding. This will teach you everything I mentioned above. You can change your life and stop self pitying on yourself. It will only make things worse. Focus on improving yourself and people will take notice.
- 4 years ago
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