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Boyfriend Has feelings for ex?

Hey everyone. I am 20 years old and I'm currently dating a wonderful guy. We have been dating for 5 months. I have been trying my best to be there for him and let him know that I really care about him. I let him know what about him I like as well. We hang out a lot. In turn, I think I may be falling for him even more and my feelings seem to be growing for him. However, the problem is his ex. Before me, he was in a 2-year relationship. He told me that he still has feelings for her and its nearly been a year since their break up but he says he likes me a lot and cares about me. It still hurts. I'm disappointed because I have no feelings for anyone else and I think I may be starting to love him. Do I have the right to feel the way I feel?

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  • 8 years ago
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    You do have right to these feelings, but don't let them overwhelm you. He will get over her.

    Also if he truly cares for you more than that if all YOU should focus on. Give him sometime. If you truly feel this though, tell him. But inform him that you still deeply care for him.

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