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Relationship Help please?

I'm currently dating a wonderful guy. We have been dating for 5 months. I have been trying my best to be there for him and let him know that I really care about him. In turn, I think I may be falling for him and my feelings seem to be growing for him. However, the problem is his ex. Before me, he was in a 2-year relationship. He told me that he still has feelings for her and its nearly been a year since their break up but he says he likes me a lot and cares about me. I'm disappointed because I have no feelings for anyone else and I think I may be starting to love him. Do I have the right to feel the way I feel?

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  • 8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You need to confront him about it if you're feeling insecure. It's not right for him to be dating you while still having feelings for someone else. Eventually he will have to pick between you and her.

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    8 years ago

    You have the right to fall for him and he has the right to still be convinced you and him are working. I think what you need to do is vamp up the intimacy. Talk more. Do you know any of his happies childhood memories? Do you know his fears? Do you know his plans for the future? Have you hosted a dinner party together and invited other couples? Have you met his family?

  • 8 years ago

    u have the right to feel anyway u want !! They r ur feelings no one elses !! Stick around n be there for him n things might change for the good or the bad just be ready when they do . He could be telling u that to see how u react to see if ur gona run or stand by his side !!

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