My husband has been flirting with his co-worker who's also married through the phone and texting.?

Here's what i say just let them keep cheating. Most likely neither will leave their spouses which is a good thing.

Next telling her partner he wont believe you any ways. Who knows they could be swingers. Prepare for hatred from your partner if you do snitch on her!

Just continue to have sex with him more!

If you leave him you will just be single a mom.

Well as much as i hate to say it, he did it once before and now his done it again. And yes he will do it again, with someone else. Getting back at him isn't going to help the matter, as the old saying goes " Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" and by the looks of it, he has shamed you twice. Don't stay just because of bills, you wouldn't be the "FIRST or LAST" women to walk away from a marriage, that your not happy in. I walked away 4 years ago from mine, and never looked back. And yes we had a house in both our names, i had just bought a new car and really didn't make that much and being a single mum was the last thing on my mind. But i did it and i made it and i'm a much much much happier person now....... Sit down and write 10 good reasons why you should stay and then write down 10 why you should leave, bet you can't come up with 10 good reason why you should stay. But your have an easy time coming up with 10 why you should leave, ask yourself if he truly loves you. If he does he wouldn't be doing what he is "Right"?

Yes the husband needs to know and do not let them know you are planning to let the husband know before hand. You can tell the husband in a way that suggest you think the behavior is inappropriate but not accuse them of cheating.

Based on what you have written, I believe that the two of them have taken this further than just text and calls. There is a good chance that they have had at minimum an intimate dinner, lets hope they have not had sex yet but if your husband doesn't stop right now they will have sex soon enough.

Yea he s cheating .cheaters lie and they have no shame .he is an a$$ hole .for doing that to his pregnant wife .he brought a gift because he feels quilty for the shameless act that he have done.first if he is really sorry and he will go to counseling with u and promise he will never do that .tell him how would he feel that if u were texting some other guy . And how will he feel if he caught u cheating .tell him to put himself in your shoes .tell him the other wh@re he is texting and calling to is cheater as well and she is cheating on her husband by texting and calling your man .tell your husband if she is willing to cheat with you knowing u are a married man and she is a married woman.how many times did she do this behind her husband back .i bet everything your husbund is not the first one she messed around with .tell him how can u trust a skank like that when she is cheating on her husband .tell him that he has a pure fresh steak at home why fetch and chase after a dirty bone that been licked and used by other dogs (men) !does he want a cheater in his hands ,if he does there she is .tell him if she's cheating on her husband then she will cheat on her next husband or boyfriend ,your husband should never listen to the things that comes out if her mouth .all is lies and I bet her husband dosent know anything about her disgusting behavior ,tell him will he risk losing his family hand your child over a trashy skank that is cheater and no morals .show this to your husband this from me , wake the f*uck up don't lose your good beautiful wife over a used up cheating no morals trasy ,sl@t .skank that f*cks around behind her husband back !!!!!

Yes, honey, you have EVERY RITE to contact her husband. Let him know ALL you know & the fact they both denied it to you. Also, that you do have the proof IF he by chance wants to know proof positive. How your husband & co worker could out rite lie to you when they knew you had proof is beyond me!! Did you mention to her you had proof of the "odd hrs." they had been conversing, also the length of time you traced it back to?? No one in their rite mind could say it was "work related" at those hrs. Since he'll be aware of it too, he can do "research" on his end & both of you will have proof. Honey, what more "trouble" could it cause?! They both are deceiving & disrespecting their marriages, their spouses. You love your husband, obviously or it wouldn't be bothering you. Possibly when the truth DOES come out, you could suggest counseling to him. Get to the core of WHY he went astray & hopefully you'll be able at some point in time to put this ALL behind you. You have no other proof of anything else going on with them. Hopefully they've ONLY been conversing & not gone any further. I KNOW how it feels to actually be cheated on as that's the reason I have an ex husband!!! However, mine was more serious as he was "diagnosed" as a "womanizer", told to get Professional help for it. Putting up with it for 11 yrs. was enuf for me. I accepted the truth as such, ended my marriage. Do what you MUST do to STOP things ASAP. You have a baby on the way, you certainly DO want a loving happy family for your child too. Try to take it as easy as possible, do one thing at a time, one day at a time. You DO have a good chance of "saving things", I certainly DO wish you all the best, honey...:)

I don't know if this is the right thing to do or not, BUT if it was me, I'd tell her husband! Then I'd kick this loser out. You don't need him. pregnant or not. Good luck!