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I wasn't invited?
My friends keep on texting me saying we should hang out, but then they post pictures on Instagram of them hanging out without me. Yesterday they all went skating... Without me. Last week they decorated gingerbread houses, without me. Two days ago they went shopping, without me. They act like we are best friends, but then they do everything without me. Tonight they are having a sleepover, and guess who wasn't invited?
9 Answers
- ?Lv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
If it makes you feel better I will tell you about what happened to me yesterday. My friend text me asking me if this weekend I would like to go for a meal, well I replied yes that sounds fab and they replied that they were waiting on another friend to reply. Later on I text saying hasn't this girl got in contact yet and they said no we are at the restaurant if you want to join! Basically I got missed out too if that makes you feel better.
It happens to the best of us and it is infuriating and rude. I think the best plan is keep friendly with them but broaden your circle. If they do invite you somewhere go, if they are happy to talk at school then talk. But make sure you have other friends there so when one set let you down the others can pick you up!
- Anonymous8 years ago
That pretty much sums up most people's experiences as your age; myself included.
You can do a couple of things: either be the one who thinks up fun things and invites or not invites THEM, or you can look for new friends who value your company.
"friends" change a lot..pretty much throughout your life and very rarely do you have friends that remain in your life forever.
It's good to appreciate your good friends while you have them...but if you notice you start to drift apart and become different people, that's okay! People change and won't always agree or like the same things for the rest of their lives. Try to find friends who are going through the same things you are, or people you have similar interest with. Once things start to change, don't feel sad... just look at it as an opportunity to make new and better friends.
I'm 31 and have already had several "best friends"...but as you grow, some move away, some get married, and some just change so you don't stay as close. It doesn't mean you hate them or unfriend them...it just means priorities change and it's a doorway to find more good friends to add to your life.
- 8 years ago
Why dont you ask your friends some day to go down the street or sleepover. Try this over the next while but if they keep leaving you out try talking to other girls in your class and when you become friendly enough with them try hanging out outside school. Also try talking to your friends about how you feel. Hopeit helps :)
- ?Lv 45 years ago
No way. i like to maintain my acquaintances on Twitter separate from right here. There i'm state-of-the-artwork and fantastically knowledgeable,right here i'm in simple terms a Pleb. I advise Stephen Fry and his misses may well be appalled if he knew..haha.
- lLv 58 years ago
So what if they didn't invitye you. There are many other things that you can do without them. Keep yourself busy and be happy without them. You can go with your family or sisters/brotehrs. It's not the end of the world. If they are true friends, then they will be there for you but then they are not.
- 8 years ago
to be honest, i dont really think they are your real friends
you can confront them on this matter
and see what they say about it
- Anonymous8 years ago
You I'm guessing?