Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

?
Lv 4
? asked in Social SciencePsychology · 8 years ago

I Need Support? I don't know.?

My dady has been terrible. I was waken up at 10 o'clock by my stepmom, because my grandfather had arrived unexpectedly. So I hurried up, got dressed, and headed out the door. Out front of my house he wasted no time in telling me some devastating news: my mom, who had been really sick for the past 4 years or so, had passed. I cried at first, because, well, she was my mom. But as the day progressed, I got less and less upset about it. Which is weird, because I'm what some would call a "mama's boy".

Which leads me to my question: Am I insensitive? Or is it normal for 17 year old boys to grow less and less sad about death? And if you say yes to the later question: this all happened in one day.

Please, don't give smart-assed answers. Thanks.

2 Answers

Relevance
  • 8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It happens, you arent insensitive it just probably hasnt really hit you yet. It may seem unreal. Just dont put it to the side and never think of it because that could very likely cause you trauma when you get older. When you are ready mourn her loss eith your loved ones. Cry if you need to cry, then be happy that she has passed on. She has completed what she needed to do in earth, now she is with the Lord. God bless you and yours.

  • Naguru
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Yes. I agree. You need some kind of advice, support, help or guidance. Let me infer or try to intuit.

    Source(s): compiled.
Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.