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shahassxs1
shahassxs1 asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

I have feelings for a girl what should i do?

i have this female friend who i care about and have feelings for. some time ago we went on and it was nice but then we lost touch with each other and when we fond each other she was with some one else. the new guy is nice and makes her happy and i am cool with him so its not like i can be mad cuz i just want her to be happy. i took some time to get in a place where i could see her and not be heart broken and did so. how ever i still have feelings for her. strong feelings. she understands me more ten anyone has. her smile can brighten up my day no matter wat and i'm just happier wit her. se care about me more then anyone has in the past. every now and then i look at her and think if only or wat ifs and then it sets in. part of me wants to tell her how i feel cuz it feels like i have to and also i wanna tel her cuz letting her think i don't have feelings for her any more makes me feel like i'm lying to her and shes the one person i don't wanna lie to. how ever i don't want to tell her cuz i don't want to get in the way of her happiness or mes up our friendship. i think she deserves a guy Much better then me and i don't know if her boyfriend now is that. what should i do?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    you gotta talk to her and tell her whats up. thats the only way

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Her having a boyfriend equals a no go zone unfortunately. Don't interrupt that.

    Although having strong feelings is completely natural. I'd suggest staying her friend and being there for her through the thick and thin because it's better to be around the person that makes you happy but not at all. Just remember that you aren't entitled to have her if she already has a boyfriend. If in the future they do break up, its then and only then that you should be able to express how you feel. In the mean time... try opening up to other girls and becoming friends with a lot more people. You might find that there is another girl that is completely perfect for you... and is single.

  • Xyst
    8 years ago

    you look like you are in a very tough position, i feel you.

    You could confess to her to get the feelings off your chest, but tell her that you want your relationship to stay as it in.

    You could just suffer in silence and wait for her to breakup with her bf and reconcile with her.

    You could also suffer in silence and find another girl you like.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    If it really in pains you just leave cut the bond

    Or you can man up and don't let yourself be trampled on

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