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? asked in Social ScienceDream Interpretation · 8 years ago

Are my dreams trying to tell me something?

To start off, I'm 18 years old and a high school senior. I'm also gay and completely in love with a guy in my class. Life is good :)

However, there's this one kid (I say kid since he's a sophomore) who always teases me. Just because I'm gay. Like, he'll take my bag and hold it way in the air (he's way taller than me), or he'll randomly push me into the wall, and he always tickles me.

I really hate him, and he hates me. With that said, I'll admit that he's one of the hottest boys I've ever seen in my life, but he's such a jerk that all that hotness goes down the drain.

Now last night, for the second night in a row, I had VERY explicit dream that we were having sex - and I liked it. I'm freaking out because I've never had this kind of dream with the actual guy I like, so why am I dreaming this kind of stuff with the guy I absolutely hate?

I'm also bugged because I have most of my classes with him, so I'll never be able to look at him right anymore ...

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  • 8 years ago
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    It might have been the contact from the tickling. As much as you hate it (emotionally) his being so attractive made it appealing (sexually). I have a very similar issue with a guy who's ultra homophobic but who's also SUPER attractive and who always thinks I'm staring at him. And I don't stare at him!...usually...Lol. But yeah, no I totally get it. When someone's that attractive and they touch you -- even briefly -- it tends to have an impact on you despite their douchiness. Stick with the nice guy; you won't regret it in the long run.

    Source(s): Gay and a Student of Psychology
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It could be tht actually you're telling yourself you hate him, but in fact you like him?

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