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Should I let my boyfriend go to parties?
This is probably a very common question but I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and were in our 16s and in high school. We've never been that relationship that lets eachother smoke/drink or go to parties because we wanted our relationship to last but nowadays parties happen every weekend. My issue is that I really want to let him go and I think I can handle trusting him to go to parties with his friends but my biggest thing is that I don't want him to go to a party, mess up by dancing with a girl or something, & than i don't know and feel stupid for it. It's hard because you can say "oh he would tell
You" but in all honesty he most Likely wouldn't because he would want our relationship to keep going and at the end of the day I STILL wouldnt know, so whats your opinions? And I know maybe we should just keep going the way we were but lets face it we both love parties and we can go together but this is for other times when we can't both go. Advice?
4 Answers
- 8 years ago
Look u guys are young. & relationships are serious. Keeping a tight leash on each other wud eventually tear u two apart bc growing up, u will be angry that u two put fun to the side for the relationship & didn't have enuff fun while growing up. I'm not saying ur relationship.won't last but u two should be able to experience some stuff. Remember this always, no matter what, someone is gonna do what they want to do, regardless. If u trust him, let him hang out & have fun. If he trusts u, he'll let u do the same. Ure 16, ure supposed to have fun & go out to parties & stuff like that. My bf never held me back. I'm 22 & we've been together since I was 17 & he was 19.
- 8 years ago
When I was 16, instead of WASTING my time dating and going to parties, I did my Math homework like a good student and went to college. Stop wasting your time and pretending like high school relationships last, because they don't.
- TheodoreLv 48 years ago
Go with him? Be supervision. Or just don't let him go. Parties aren't all they're hyped up to be. A few close friends and some good drinks are where it's at.
- Anonymous8 years ago
yes dont keep him chained up like hes in a zoo. let him have some fun. its not your decision anyways.
