Husband is not happy with the way I dress?

If you want your man to keep his eyes on you, you better step up!

You have a scheduling/marriage problem not a wardrobe problem. You see him briefly each morning and are in bed already when he gets home. With that pretty much what you wear is the only thing there is any time for. I think you need to change up your schedule(s) so you have several hours together most days not several minutes. If that means going back to office work then so be it.

This isn't about work or clothes this is about your marriage.

I would submit to you that you have let your marriage slip to the point where what you wear is the focus. That is not healthy. You both need to work together to find a solution that works better for a marriage because clearly riding 7 days a week and date once every 2 weeks isn't cutting it.

You know how they say it's not about the cap on the toothpaste or the socks on the floor?

Well it's not about what your wearing either.

when your instructing job is over and all the animals are fed and down for the evening, go home and put on a nice dress or top and comb or brush your hair and either eat together like this or sit with him in the evening with him and talk and then watch tv or play a board game.

Then offer him the chance to take off all of your clothes.

All he wants is to not see you wearing the same clothes all the time.

Do not be lazy, give him a chance to see you wearing something different.

you look like an exceedingly suitable woman, so i will comprehend your husband being jealous approximately you going out in an extremely short semi-see with the aid of costume, seamed tights n heels, it extremely is an exceedingly attractive, purely approximately tarty, outfit. Plus you're going out with yet another guy as his date to an journey that sounds like many different adult men would be there, so I anticipate you will get a lot of fellows interest. i think of those are the excuses your husband is disillusioned, so we are able to all see his element. even with the incontrovertible fact that, if he became into chuffed so you might circulate which includes your buddy, who sounds like purely a protracted term buddy, and he became into chuffed once you purchased the costume, then i will work out why you at present sense he's being slightly infantile and exhibiting a loss of have confidence. in case you do no longer placed on the costume then every time you circulate out in some thing hes no longer chuffed approximately, then this could be an argument. as quickly as he's acquainted with you had a reliable time and not something befell he would be advantageous and recover from his insecurities. So my suggestion... placed on THE costume! teach your self off because of the fact the attractive woman you're, delight in the attention, then come abode to hubby and have loving intercourse with him and tell him how lots you like him!

My Fiancee says the same thing to me, I think you're right you might have embraced country living, because it's relaxed and not soo stuffy, very easy to do. But I think you need to explain to him that you aren't in a professional field anymore, and you don't have the money to be spending it on that. But I will agree that every once in a while is nice, it's something refreshing for your husband and at the same time it makes you feel sexier to dress up. Always does with me.

You need to do something to sex up these horse riding clothes. Not when you're going to work obviously, but if you can somehow make him associate these outfits with something sexy, he will never see them the same. You could try something like the link in the source or put your own twist on it with what you've got.

I like the idea of dressing up now and then. Get all fixed up and even if you stay home and eat in, maybe it will spice things up some.

He has to be understanding of this situation, it's not like you can magically change clothes at the drop of a hat.

Aside from dressing UP now and then, he has to meet you half way and be understanding of the situation and lifestyle......that's fair.

Dress up on date night. And, oh, have regular date nights! :)