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Girlfriend and I broke up and she wants to hangout.?
It's been 2months since my ex girlfriend broke up with me :\ it was hard for me so i deleted all her pics and anything that reminded me of her. She told me it wasn't my fault and told me she wasn't ready because of her past relationship with her ex breaking up with her it was her first love and i guess she wasn't over him cause she would talk about him when she was with me. we lasted about a month then after that she texted me at work telling me she needed to talk to me. We did the no contact rule and then recently we have been texting and she wants to hangout with me now i mean she said that she wants to be single. We had alot of fun together and stuff but i mean isn't it harder to be just friends after having your heart broken by that person? btw i leave to Bootcamp for the Marines in 85 Days.
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- TyLv 58 years agoFavorite Answer
She is breaking up with you but paving the road to have you back whenever she wants. This is unfair to you as it strings you along and puts the relationship completely in his hands.
I would suggest to you that you let her know that you are OK with the breakup and request that she not contact you as you have important things happening in your life that require all of your attention.
What this does is forces her to realize that she can't have her cake and eat it too, and that by breaking up with you she may have lost you for good. Human nature ensures that we want what we cannot have. She will come back.
One word of warning, it you aren't careful or don't know how to properly use no contact in a breakup then you can easily create more problems. I am putting a link in the sources box that will help you if you are new to the concept of no contact.
Regardless of what you do, I wish you the best of luck. Breakups are tough, keep your head up and remember: This, like all things, shall pass too.
Source(s): http://un-dumped.com/ - 8 years ago
I honestly wouldn't bother with her, the fact she kept going on about her ex isn't a good start, you'll probably find if you started hanging out with her again you'll end up hurt and since your going away I really wouldn't, its not worth all the heart break and upset.
- ?Lv 68 years ago
There's nothing wrong with being friends, but she might want to see you before you off for the marines.
Perhaps why she broke up with you, as she couldn't hack you being away.
- Anonymous8 years ago
maybe she wants to see you before you go to boot camp?
even if she doesnt want to go out with you its hard to just cancel eachother out just like that.
i think you should go see her, she might realise how much she likes you when you leave