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I don't like the piercings my girlfriend wants?
Now, I know I'm shallow wanting this, but I want to be with my girlfriend, and she wants to get several piercings. Many of which I don't like, considering I'm not a great fan of them anyways. She just says they're a piece of metal, why should it change anything, and I try to tell myself that it's her body. If it helps, she wants to get these that I remember:
Horizontal eyebrow, dahlia, tragus, scaffolding, conch, double nose, hips, bottom of her belly b utton, nipples, wrist, and maybe cheek or shark bites when she's bored of dahlias.
She's 13 so she can't get a lot of them done yet, but I'm certain she will still get them done.
I guess my question is, how can I accept her piercings as she gets them, considering the thought of them makes me cringe at the moment? Thanks.
I've told her she looks beautiful without them, and i don't know why she wants them. But yeah, I just want to learn to accept it
None of you guys understand the question..I don't want to stop her, just learn to accept them.
8 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
Who the hell cares you probably wont even be with her by the time she can even get them all.
- 8 years ago
before she gets the piercing i advise that you get her to look up the piercings and search the things that they will do to her body and what people will think when they see her . because i know when i see a girl with allot of piercings that she is scene and that she is a weird person and when she see's the consequences that the piercings will do to her body maybe she will change her mind about most of the piercings the only piercing that i recommend for a girl would be the belly button one and maybe a lip piercing but other then that i don't recommend the other piercings some ways you could learn to accept them is get her to start with the most common piercing off that list so that you have time to adjust to them easier see if you guys can compromise on some of the piercings that you don't really like if this helped please let me know
- 8 years ago
I doubt her parents will ever let her get those piercings. Tell her she does not need them. Sure piercings are pieces of metal but they convey a message. I have a septum and some think its cool and others think its disgusting. Its her body but piercings can be very delicate. For example when my cousin was 14 she got her hips pierced. She did not get microdermals, her body rejected it and now she has nasty scars. P.S I went through a phrase where I wanted almost all the piercings out there and I got over it.
- Anonymous8 years ago
She's just your girlfriend. Let her do what she wants. If you guys end up married, then you can tell her not to get the piercings (or tell her to take them out if she's already got them by then).
By the time she's 18 (when she can get them?), she'll probably decide she doesn't even want most of those piercings, anyway.
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- 8 years ago
you may never like them on her but if she does get them you might grow to like them, I'm 13 and i want like 9 more piercings than i have (4) and i might not want some of the ones i want now but dont put her down
