How to win girlfriend back?

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This is a huge story so I'll cut it short for you all. Me and my girlfriend were together for 3 years, we'd practically devoted and promised the rest of our live's will be spent with each other. However on new years day, my girlfriend (rightfully) told me she wants a break and wants space. Her reasons were I was starting to take her for granted and she wasn't feeling like a "kid" anymore, (we are young we are at the latter end of our teenage years). All of this made me realize what I had did and I endlessly fought for her to prove I had changed. But now I'm in a situation when I am beginning to think is leaving her alone really the right thing to do, just in the hope she'll miss me again and come running back? The only thing stopping me is worrying the novelty will die off and she gets used to it, and maybe starts to interact with other guys, as she attracts alot of attention with her looks, in all honesty.
What do you think? Thanks

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catlover · Answer

I think you should just leave her alone and giver her her space, and if she actually loves you and is the right girl, she will start to miss you and come back. She never said that she wanted to break up with you, she just wants a little space and time alone. She said that she thinks that you are taking her for granted, so she probably wants to have some space away from you so she can see if you miss her or not and if you really do miss her a lot and it's easy to tell, then she will know you weren't taking her for granted and now you truly want her. This probably sounds really confusing, as I'm not a dating expert, but I hope that this helps somewhat. She just wants you to see that you shouldn't take her for granted.

Anonymous · Answer

I never encourage "changing" for anyone, but maturing is kind of expected. Typically woman mature quicker than men. Meaning, she may start to be interested in guys older and a bit more mature than you. Try manning up (for lack of better phrase). This is a tough time; you will come into your own from a teenager to an adult. Maybe she feels like shes taken the step and you haven't. As far as "winning her back" I think you should really listen to what she said. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. So don't blow smoke her way and tell her how things have changed etc etc. Really do it. Whatever it may be... or you may really loose her. The whole "break" thing to see if she'll miss you is kind of a game. That's immature.

jordan · Answer

Hi paddy mate I've gone through brake-ups like this and the worst thing I did was keep calling them and telling them I love them its not a bad thing maybe yours will like this but mine did not like me doing it and in that case I had to move on I've found the girl of my life now and lost my virginity to her I'm 17 btw mate but anyway your girl do what you think is right call her or give her the space if you love her leave her have space :) its up to you good luck mate hope you guys sort it out :)

Anonymous · Answer

I would completely stop talking to her and give her space. There is no way you can make her want you back. She has to come back by herself. If you let someone go, if they really love you they will come back to you. Just take it easy and I would say at this point try to move on but always keep a bit of feelings for her incase she does want you back.

Anonymous · Answer

Give it a couple weeks of no contact then call her and be honest

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