Why people would start caring when someone had died ? Why did not they care before someone died?

You dont appeeciate what you have until you lose it

I appreciate my family and friend (yes singular) very much. I don't know why but i have the tendency to think ahead, and think about how sad i'll be when my mom passes. And honestly, i would do ANYTHING to keep her. I want my family to be with me for the rest of my life. I can't imagine what i'll end up like when someone in my family passed.

Well, writing this made me cry. So now you know that some people aren't so heartless in society.

That's right, maybe jealousy and hate to fellow human living being.

I like Pastor Eduardo Lapiz preaching:

* One good act is better than thousands of intentions.

* Care much that living than the dead.

It means ex.: If u want to give gifts to ur mother, give it now. Don't say later. Do it , don't just intend it. Love ur parent while they are still alive.

I think it's because they don't realize what they have until it's gone. They don't really care about them when they're living, but when the person dies they feel bad.

two of the truest mantras of the human race

don't know what they've got till its gone

&

they always want what they cant have