Ok ladies, give me the "when you lose your virginity" talk...?

When you lose your virginity, it's like as soon as its gone to that person you've immediately got a constant connection with them and there will always be something there for them even if things don't work out. People, mainly the youth, nowadays don't treat it as much but there are still some traditionalist's out there!

Before, make sure you're ready don't be tense or it'll hurt just feel loose and comfortable. If you don't you're not ready. Do foreplay so you loosen up and you'll be more at ease.

During, if it hurts tell him and tell him whether or not the pain is bearable, however some people even my self didn't have no pain nor blood because i was ready and i had foreplay.

After, you might be sore for a day or two maybe not even at all, because you're not used to something of that size being in there. However your vagina is like an elastic band and after a while o stretching it'll loosen up and you'll be used to it.

Do it if you love him, not to join in the crowd.