ok so i like this girl (she lives next door) need some expert advice asap!?

Listen to your expert friend who is very knowledgeable in that field because you're going at the situation all wrong, he is right if you give her too much attention then she will feel like she have you under control and will play you whenever she is lonely. You have to stop showing you're weaken and start acting like a man and let her know there are girls that is attractive to you and she will step up her game when you stop text her first allow her a change to miss you and contact you.

Yes, if you're always finding yourself to be messaging her first, (the next day) stop messaging her and wait until she messages your first, then reply.

But gee, if you live right next door, invite her over or just go to her house. In person contact is better than talking to each other over technology. If you want this to go somewhere spend your time with her in person.

I had a friend who was in a similar situation to you although they weren't neighbours but they lived down the same road.

He just backed away from her for a couple of days then just told her that he really liked her and things started moving forward from there.

I hope I helped.

If you feel you are falling for her you need to back off a little.. "If you love something set it free, if it returns to you it was meant to be and if it doesn't you're better off.."

Plus you never want to **** where you eat bc what if it goes wrong then you live next to your ex.. Trust me thats no fun bro.. Good luck

lol help a brother out. uhhh, I think girls like it when a guy is the more obsessed one (no offense) or the more 'involved' one I should say. It makes them feel like they're not doing anything wrong or they feel better because as you know girlsare normally the clingy ones.

Just ask her out dude!

Instead of just talking to her over the phone. While talking over the phone you should just say: "Hey, want to just come over to my house? I promise I won't rape you, lets just talk" or be like

"hey you want to go to this location? I won't rape you I'm just asking you out on a date"

and if she says no than either she's nervous or obv aint interested

dude you got a good thing going just keep doing what you doing and make her make the first move don't make it first. it kind of scares them away.

hope I helped:)

give her space. but not too much, you know what i mean? be misterious but not confusing. that kind of thing.

Don't waste your time. If she doesn't put any effort in she's not interested