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I like this guy, he has a girlfriend, he sends me mixed signals?

So I have this friend who is a guy and is 3 years older than me, we've known each other for at least 2 years and I developed a crush on him, the thing is I dont know if he likes me back or not, he's nice to me and isn't afraid to touch me (even today he picked something out of my hair) but he has a girlfriend right now who goes to a different school, when we text each other sometimes he sends the heart emotocon but I don't know if that's just him being nice like his usual self or if he likes me more then a friend, I'm not going to ask yet cause I value the friendship I have with him but I want to know what you guys think.... Im a girl btw

Update:

I AM NOT ASKING HIM OUT OR FLIRTING WITH HIM GUYS READ THE DISCRIPTION BEFORE BEING AN ***

Update 2:

I have said this in the description and I will say it again, he is my friend and I'm not gonna mess with his current relationship in fact I'm wishing him the best of luck tomorrow with his date...

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I am not even going to read your description.

    He has a girlfriend. End of story. Don't go with a guy who has a girlfriend, that is screwed up and wrong of you to do. Imagine it happening to you! And also, if he did dump his gf for you..would he not dump you for another girl?

    hope you make the right choice

    answer mine?

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201301...

    OK EDIT:

    Thanks for answering my question. I came back and read your description. He could be trying to flirt with you, or maybe not. I see you've said you developed a crush on him. Don't do anything about it. Because he has a gf of course. I say remain his friend and if he becomes single, then go ahead and flirt with him. If he tries to flirt with you, you can keep talking to him, but don't flirt back (ignore the flirt parts of his texts). If he is really going all out to flirt with you, let him know that he has a gf and shouldn't be flirting with you. Be firm about this.

    Then again--the picking the thing from your hair is ... normal, I mean..you had something in your hair. It is something I would do to my friends if they had something in your hair. So basically, that only leaves the heart he sent you. Was their a text with it? Did it make sense to include a heart with the text? If so, don't assume he was flirting. But if not...then watch out.

    Also, pay attention to see if he seems to flirt with any other girls. I hope I helped. If not, sorry, did the best I could.

  • mcgown
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    He Sends Mixed Signals

  • I Believe He Is Just Playing Games With You Heart, Don't Sell Yourself Short. If He Won't Value His Girlfriend Then Honey He Most Likely Won't Value You. &- He's Probably Doing The Same To Ther Girls I Know The Feeling &- It Just Sucks Horribly, But Don't Get Too Involved &- Especially Don't Get Your Heart Involved It Can Come Out To a Bad Result.

    Source(s): Personal Experience.
  • 8 years ago

    Im kinda stuck in the same thing as you but the guys i know act very friendly around the girl weather they like her or not , since hes in a relationship there is a possibility that he developed feelings for you but wont put the current relationship he's in jeopardy

    I really hope this helped ;)

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  • 8 years ago

    mmm don't fall for it he's future farming you. Meaning if things don't work out with his girls he's got a couple girls like you to fall back on as possibilities. Plus some guys flirt just to flirt.

    So when, you guys are hanging out, You're feeling all this energy coming from him so it feels like he likes you, he slightly touches you and you blush. SERIOUSLY, snap out of it and fall for a guy that doesn't do this when he has a girlfriend. Spend your energy on someone thats worth it and AVAILABLE.

  • 8 years ago

    I would not mess with him until he is single. Coming from a girl that has a bf I would be so mad if he cheated on me. Think of her before you do that. Plus, if he cheats on her why wouldn't he do the same to you? But, if he breaks it off with her, then ask away.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Why does it matter if he likes you or not! He has a GIRLFRIEND. So ignore him and don't get involved.

  • Sergio
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    First i thought you were a guy lol I would troll... :D

    Anyways don't even bother talking to him. He is bascially cheating on his girlfriend. He would do the samething to you in the long run.

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